better now than never to learn how to associate with other cultures.
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fukk around and be like me
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better now than never to learn how to associate with other cultures.
yea i thought it would be cool tho, not like im having a problem really its just uncomfortable, thats all, ima be good, cause ima smart dude and the work is a non issueDidn't you go on a orientation before you decided to transfer breh?
better to start interacting with white people now before you get into the work world and feel even more confused they're human too...
idk bra some things really hard to learn on your own, plus that degree will come in handy also, im in computer science and coding isnt the easiest things to get, shyt learning linux isnt the easiest thing, but ima junior so i dont have long and so far i dont have majors loans, i loans i own range from 1-3 stacks, thats nothin to pay back
yea i thought it would be cool tho, not like im having a problem really its just uncomfortable, thats all, ima be good, cause ima smart dude and the work is a non issue
fukk a degree..you don't need a degree to land a career..I like history..so say I apply for a museum curator...I'm not gonna send a resume..I'm just gonna walk in there and spit my knowledge..they'll be like..oh shyt..he knows more than that guy with a degree and he's self taught,,meaning he's willing to learn for himself in the workplace..a degree is just a piece of paper..a real degree is a piece of ya mind..
oh trust me im not trying to fit in, i wouldnt be able to fit in if i wanted to tho, ima friendly dude tho so people just seem to walk up to me and talk and im not afraid to approach people, white girls be talkin to me alot, i think the black chicks be scared to talk to meDont try and fit in... do your own thing... be like a ferris bueller ass nicca... thats what I did... and college was the best time of my life... and i went to a 90% white uni in canada... had a great time... but it might be different for me because 1. i grew up around white kids 2. i fukk with white chicks (not exclusively no c00no)
but you cant try and fit in... you have to understand that every single cac is gonna perceive you as being that black guy and the second u try and ingratiate yourself to them u drop down a peg... i guarantee you if you just roll like a lone wolf and keep to your own that white chicks will approach you in class... this is what happened to me... and then once they saw my crew was all legit dudes... i was money... got laid more in junior n senior year of college than all the rest of my life combined.
im open my last girlfriend was a non hood chick chick, she was no white wash chick tho, she was a cool middle class chick from atl, and she introduced me to alot of things i never did beforeDamn breh...not trying to be a downer...but it sounds rough as fukk for you out here.
Unless you're open to branching out from "traditional" black/hood culture...you're gonna have a rough time fitting in. (That goes for the whites, as well as many of the blacks). In my experience, a lot of blacks enjoy being able to break away from their socially prescribed attitudes/beliefs in college.
All this social stuff is unimportant of course. You've got the right idea of just keeping your head down and up with your studies...but if you DO want a better social life...at least be more open to the middle class blacks.
obvi, but many jobs one of the qualifications is education ala a degree, diploma, trade certificate etc. without it , it does not matter how smart you are . Don';t believe me look at immigrants, many are smarter than me and you, many have education from their prior homeland however because it's viewed as not being applicable here it's like having nothing.
yea i had that feeling also, cause on the degree im looking to get and the field im looking to branch into(game design, and the school has a pretty good video game design program)better now than never to learn how to associate with other cultures.
I just said that sound cool like I had wisdom..I never tried it..I work in a warehouse
yea they have a few white dudes i talked to in a couple classes, mostly bout work, but some about random stuffGotta be well rounded bruh. Learn how to socialize and work with all kinds of cultures, esp as a minority. Chances are, esp in your field, you will be the only one of your kind in your office (maybe 2 tops), so you gotta know how to deal with other folks. Funny shyt is, you prob got a little more in common with them than you think. You'll be surprised. Even if it's simple shyt like sports and videogames, that shyt goes a LONG way to being icebreakers and shyt.