Are you white? Because you sound like it with the bootstrapping. Once again, "nice areas" does equal interstate relocation in order to have access to a doctor's office or escape food deserts. The average black Boomer not being Ebenezer Scrooge doesn't erase that they had upward mobility while their grandchildren do not.Are you white? You sound like it.
Black people have been priced out of nice areas since the great migration. If you're white/mixed, I understand your frustrations. If you're black, you probably come from privileged blacks. The average black boomer didn't have it like that.
Even my own son think I was rolling in dough when I was raising him. He didn't even realize I had struggles and worked two jobs to take care of him. All he see is what I have NOW, and totally ignore the road i had to take to get to where im at.
My parents are from the projects in Bed-Stuy and the heart of post-riots Newark. I jumped into an industry at 28 where the 85 hours I work a week is normal because I refused to run from the state my parents separately survived in before raising my income. I was also working 2 part-time jobs for a year before that, attempting to go full-time in both still wouldn't have been a livable wage for a late 20s adult. Try again.
I shouldn't HAVE to do that, not should you HAVE to in order to raise a child.