GreenGhxst
Veteran
U nikkas stay in yall feelings on here
just accept that ether brehette

U nikkas stay in yall feelings on here
just accept that ether brehette![]()
That law!If you want to be king of your castle you must earn it.
A man should pay all the rent/mortgage, electric, and provide food at the least.
That way you can absolutely run your house. If you're splitting 50/50, your woman has just as much say as you.
The correct answer is:
It's circumstantial.
It simply depends on the mutual understanding both parties agreed upon before they we're in the relationship. So if you're involved with a S/O who understood that both of you preferred to live out a more traditional man/woman relationship dynamic - then you'll have to pay at least the majority of it or maybe all of it because you're the man (aka the provider). On the other hand, if you and your S/O subscribe to a more modern idea of a relationship where you both build together, respect each other's role as equals and as self-sufficient individuals before you both met, then you'll likely pay half or whatever you & your woman agree that is fair.
I'm paying all $1350 if she's my wife, that's how my parents raised me, my father was the man of the house.
However if we aren't married it's 50/50.
Ok so that means that the "king" will be spending all his money paying for everything and the "queen" is just paying cable/internet (if that) and maybe water/sanitation and pocketing the rest of her money. When shyt goes south due to irreconcilable differences or she cheating because she found another man attractive or she bored because u always working and need to be entertained...u gonna be fuked cuz u damn near broke paying for nearly everything and she will be well off cuz of all she saved by her having such little if any bills and some other sucka/simp will be her sponsor. Yeah OK...If you want to be king of your castle you must earn it.
A man should pay all the rent/mortgage, electric, and provide food at the least.
That way you can absolutely run your house. If you're splitting 50/50, your woman has just as much say as you.
Simp on playa:amused:When I started to call my wife "girlfriend" I payed for 100% of everything
it's not a big deal if you love the woman
LOL ........ how are you a team if one is paying more than the other ....
idiotic use of the phrase
I'm on record here for being against default gender roles but seriously, some of y'all brehettes really have it twisted:
What's wrong with the bulleted?
- Half and Half is equal
- Men should know how to cook for himself and others
- Men should know how to clean and take care of a house
Edit: If paying half and half means she has a say in how things are run/doesn't make me king of the castle so be it, she lives there too, she has a voice![]()
Great. No need to get so irate and emotional then. if you're willing to do 50% of the household chores and child rearing and not demand a woman submit if she's paying for half, why did my post make you so mad?
I guess for the same reason that your potential partner would be in the same position of self sufficiency alone and then decide to add an extra person to cook for and clean up after while submitting and giving them more say and importance than them in their own households.
Oh so you're going the pretend it doesnt happen or you dont see it route. cool. I only debate when people are at least willing to be intellectually honest, so no need to engage further.
Pay for "everything" for women who ain't ya wife and mother of your children brehs.......
You know how many silly nikkas I know who let women shack up with them and took care of most of the bills, rent, paid for vacations, gifts, etc , thousands of dollars wasted once the they broke up and the chicks moved on and shacked up with another dude. These dudes did this cause they wanted to be seen as "the man"only to be left crying when the relationship didn't work out and in more debt with less money saved over 2-3 year period.
If she's your "girl", you pay half of everything. If you want to be nice because you make more money and want to take care of more bills or pay for more things, that's up to you but just know if she's working full time, she's pocketing a lot and saving maybe more than you if she's good with money.
I know a lot of nikkas like to play house and act like they girlfriends they wife only to be shattered when it doesn't work out after 2 or 3 years.
If we are talking about your WIFE and the woman who had your children that you honour, then you are a family and you work out a dynamic that works out for the FAMILY between your incomes. It's a selfless thing in this case if you built with the right woman properly.
Hell, it's 2017. Women get to go around and fukk whoever they want and we are not allowed to say shyt about it! If we do, we are slut shaming and that they are just like men and have needs too. Perfect! You work full time just like us, you make 40-70K per year (or more, many women now a days do), you better believe you paying for some of this shyt.