How much should the man pay?

[SadimirPutin]

I am dying

All of this "Act like a king"...."be a fukking man" is complete bullshyt and yes you guys are marks

The only way that should be entertained is if you are married....and even then this dont make much sense either unless the majority of her disposable income is going into discretionary, savings/retirement and vacation funds for both of you.

And even then this is still problematic because in the event of a divorce the court system is geared disproportionately towards supporting women.

And this king nonsense.....I suppose yall gonna tell me yall found these docile women that just fall in line and accept whatever you decree right

Seriously many of us dont know one another in real life.....there is no need to front this hard on a message board

 

[HoldThisL]

Seriously If I had a family and a stable income I would pay for rent & mostly everything that we would need in the household. I would also still be able to cook and clean for them and myself. But the thing is that is no excuse for a woman not to work cause you never know what could happen to me.

 

[BrothaZay]

Of course it's not. If it was, I wouldn't be paying for anything. He'd be paying $1350.

Anyway, if you have a problem with that, then you shouldn't mind her only cooking for herself and cleaning up after herself only. Like roommates do. It's not fair that both are working and paying the same, but you expect her to cook and clean as well. & there is no point in living with a gf/bf if y'all are going to live as roommates. That's a waste of time and money, especially when things end. You may as well have stayed living seperately.

You and your gf can play roommates. Me and my bf/husband will not.

bytch can you even cook

And lol @ cleaning

Yall 2 grown ass adults, how dirty can the house really be to justify u not helping out on bills

 

[Wild self]

these answer prove why most women are single and bitter. Men aren't falling for the swindle.

If cooking and cleaning was so difficult men would be lining up to marry chics so they could take over the duties. But as we can all see Men's interest in marriage is on the downfall. We can cook and clean for ourselves. These chics just want a free ride

The Internet emancipated the minds of millions of would-be simps

Now these broads who want to take the easy way out, are the ones not getting wifed up anymore.

 

[Ohene]

You gonna get the next spider, or nah?

 

[Black Cobain]

All this backwards ass thinking rooted in misogyny
I don't want a housewife
50/50 is equal, we can alternate chores and cooking

#GMB taking no losses

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hmmmm before my ex moved in I paid full rent. He came with a rental discount AND we split everything else. B/c of his discount I saved close to $700 month in just rent alone. Living with him I payed half rent and he light bill. He paid half of the discounted rent and the other utilities. I swear my half of rent, phone, car insurance and lights came to $800 out of my $2200 check per month.

My account was ridiculous. So I certainly didn't mind holding shyt down. I was cooking damn near everyday just b/c my eyes started watering with tears of joy every time I checked my account. Maaaaannnnn lemme tell u something. I should have been smarter with my money but it was goat for me. Lmao! U need a foot rub? Lemme run a bath for u...

"I'll cook the tacos! I'll cook the tacos!"

 

[Lord_nikon]

I would pay the rent, and chip in a little of the 450.

 

[jwonder]

Hmmmm before my ex moved in I paid full rent. He came with a rental discount AND we split everything else. B/c of his discount I saved close to $700 month in just rent alone. Living with him I payed half rent and he light bill. He paid half of the discounted rent and the other utilities. I swear my half of rent, phone, car insurance and lights came to $800 out of my $2200 check per month.

My account was ridiculous. So I certainly didn't mind holding shyt down. I was cooking damn near everyday just b/c my eyes started watering with tears of joy every time I checked my account. Maaaaannnnn lemme tell u something. I should have been smarter with my money but it was goat for me. Lmao! U need a foot rub? Lemme run a bath for u...

"I'll cook the tacos! I'll cook the tacos!"

Most American women are stupid and don't think like you.

They have some fantasy of some guy paying for every thing while they sit on their funky butts all day.

It's 2017 not 1947. Everybody works so you should split everything. Chores also.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

women should pay for everything

dis dikk aint for free

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Most American women are stupid and don't think like you.

They have some fantasy of some guy paying for every thing while they sit on their funky butts all day.

It's 2017 not 1947. Everybody works so you should split everything. Chores also.

Well see here's the deal. I ended up benefiting more from the arrangement than my ex so it wasn't exactly 50/50.

He was a leasing agent so he brought an almost $300 discount to my rent. But then we split an already ridiculously cheap rent on TOP of that. He paid the cable/phone/internet bundle and I paid the light bill. So b/c I was essentially swimming in money, the least I could do is take care of the house and I'm a neat freak anyway so that was a given. But he had to pay child support, his car note, his other bills and was still doing little shyt for me like taking me out and buying me small shyt here and there.

I'm not heartless so I took care of food and stuff. He had some shytty ways but he always provided for me. Hell he even got me a sweet part time job chilling st the pool everyday last summer so I had even MO money! I felt so guilty about it that I gave him like $300 one time cash and bought him video games occasionally b/c I save so much money living with him that I was able to pay off my carnote and STILL had like close to $5000 left in the bank.

If u looking out for me like that then the very least I can do to NOT be a piece of utter shyt is keep a clean crib and make sure u got food when u get home. Like seriously.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Honestly if she moved in my crib I'd pay the rent but that bytch better be paying that 450 by herself

 

[DatBoiHawk]

I don't think any couple splits things exactly 50/50. These guys have probably never be in relationships where their money is combined, they've probably never seen one either.




A woman marrying someone who makes more than they do has nothing to do with them "setting themselves short". Most women marry up or equal.

No offense, but you sound like a bird

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Classic thread

 

[tahoj4]

There is no 50/50. Because both parties don't make the same amount of money. Can't even split house duties 50/50 especially if you have kids. If you married and yall not working together on taking care of this stuff you will not be together for long. Quick way to resent the person that is not kicking in more to take care of things. Cooking and cleaning can only go so far.