If the nice guys are attractive, that’s not the case.
LOOKS MATTER
The sooner y’all accept it, the better you’ll feel. Put effort into your looks. Just because someone is attractive, doesn’t mean they’re toxic.
Relationships require physical contact. Do you want to be physical with someone you aren’t attracted to?
Are you dating this woman because she’s nice?
How do you expect a woman to really throw it down in the bedroom, if she doesn’t find you attractive? No relationship is perfect 24/7. Everything they do to annoy you will be magnified if they don’t find you attractive, and vice versa. Y’all know how black women go to bed. You’re going to be turned off by that scarf, and bonnet if that face card isn’t working.