How most women see settling with nice guys :mjlol: :deadrose:
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I'm white, nikka! And Kenny Lattimore makes some good music.
They do look like they are having fun.
She bad built and got a strong face. Looking like the bird off of sesame street with that nose or the witch from the wizard of oz.
So if you're a good guy and you can provide stability, but you start realizing that your girl falls into this category, you need to gtfo before you ruin your life.
Nah they look like a nice couple.
The key insight here is that they don't like the good guys AT ALL.
F*ckthemkids
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The girl in the OP and the corresponding women commenting are just as bad as the men they really like.
I think most women get played a couple of times. Whether through believing they can change the guy or be outright deceived. It happens. Women with integrity and self esteem chalk it up as a learning experience and start to move accordingly.
If you’re an older woman talking this nonsense you’re just as toxic. You’re willingly placing yourself in this position and will never learn.
Most women want a nice guy, they just don’t want a Marty Mcfly Jr.
I think most women get played a couple of times. Whether through believing they can change the guy or be outright deceived. It happens. Women with integrity and self esteem chalk it up as a learning experience and start to move accordingly.
If you’re an older woman talking this nonsense you’re just as toxic. You’re willingly placing yourself in this position and will never learn.
Most women want a nice guy, they just don’t want a Marty Mcfly Jr.
I must be a hybrid because I can provide both.
That’s the key, balance.
Imma do the gentle love maker thing
You getting smutted on weekend trips or vacations tho
J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
If the nice guys are attractive, that’s not the case.
LOOKS MATTER
The sooner y’all accept it, the better you’ll feel. Put effort into your looks. Just because someone is attractive, doesn’t mean they’re toxic.
Relationships require physical contact. Do you want to be physical with someone you aren’t attracted to?
Are you dating this woman because she’s nice?
How do you expect a woman to really throw it down in the bedroom, if she doesn’t find you attractive? No relationship is perfect 24/7. Everything they do to annoy you will be magnified if they don’t find you attractive, and vice versa. Y’all know how black women go to bed. You’re going to be turned off by that scarf, and bonnet if that face card isn’t working.
That example had me cramped up.
TheGreatMTB
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This really isn't even worth responding to, because it's just a bunch of people showing out on social media. But if we assume this is real, then we don't know what the definition of a 'nice guy' is. What does that even mean?
Is it a dude who bends over backward to kiss her ass every five seconds? A normal dude who has a stable job? A man who buys her everything she wants and makes sure she lives her dream life? A man who would be a good father? I've heard all those labeled as a good/nice guy.
These labels mean nothing.
If you stay in shape, have a personality, can support yourself financially, and move with some measure of intentionality (when you talk you sound like you're talking for a reason, when you take her places she feels like you planned the experience out), you'll be fine. Some birds will be birds, but overall you'll be fine, most of them hate themselves anyway, so you'd just end up hating them too if you got to know them.
Is it a dude who bends over backward to kiss her ass every five seconds? A normal dude who has a stable job? A man who buys her everything she wants and makes sure she lives her dream life? A man who would be a good father? I've heard all those labeled as a good/nice guy.
These labels mean nothing.
If you stay in shape, have a personality, can support yourself financially, and move with some measure of intentionality (when you talk you sound like you're talking for a reason, when you take her places she feels like you planned the experience out), you'll be fine. Some birds will be birds, but overall you'll be fine, most of them hate themselves anyway, so you'd just end up hating them too if you got to know them.
CreepyMcCreeperson
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Roger king
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This isnt anything new, the vast majority of women want the thugged out bad boys and goons, men that dont care and will cheat on them, they dont want the good guys who would give them the world if only given a chance. hence why i feel no sympathy for the eventual ''he cheated on me'' tiktok/social media meltdown
