How many of you have stopped taking women out on Dates?

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I'm not worried[DOUBLEPOST=1397599707][/DOUBLEPOST]

Why does that matter LOL? Even if i posted my measurements, your response would be, "Pics or it didn't happen" and I'm not posting my pics...Just know I look good enough to turn a few heads.

Just tell the measurements. Realistically. We grown folks.
 
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Just tell the measurements. Realistically. We grown folks.
Everyone on the coli is grown, with 6 IT certs, making over 100K, you right...but no I won't do that. I will say that I eat healthy, workout, have a nice shape that i've maintained and will continue to maintain until I leave this earth! And based on how the women in my family hold up, I'll be straight for a long time looks wise...
 
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Everyone on the coli is grown, with 6 IT certs, making over 100K, you right...but no I won't do that. I will say that I eat healthy, workout, have a nice shape that i've maintained and will continue to maintain until I leave this earth! And I based on how the women in my family hold up, I'll be straight for a long time looks wise...

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What are your numbers? Be honest (no simp).
 

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It has nothing to do with not being creative. There are plenty of free events to go to but If all you want to do is smash then why even take them out? Bypass the "date" and have her come straight to the crib to smash. If she is cool and good in bed then we can go out later on...

Fam, why even make the thread then? If the only objective is to smash, why would you ever do more than the bare minimum? Were you actually bringing jumpoffs to five star restaurants before?
 

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If yall nikkas was really bout that life the [female] would take you out for a date. but that's another thread.

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Underrated, powerful post. Wonder why it got 0 daps... :mjpls:

y'all can take breaks from trolling thecoli, and watching porn all day, in order to google points of interest in your city for cheap or inexpensive dates ya know.

Y'all whine endlessly about not meeting quality women, but then there's endless threads like this where nikkas openly brag about being cheapskates and lowlifes, and wasting energy trying to bang equally desperate, unattractive women y'all meet at the club.

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I was surprised TBH...there used to be a party that I went to here in Orlando that's not even in the hood...I went every once in a while for a long time bc the DJ was good and the dudes weren't thirsty...i went one Friday and it was closed...come to find out, someone was stabbed...it was surprising to me because this place was a 21+ for women and 25+ for men...Now the only good place to go is the old skool party with the thirsty old dudes, but I don't mind them bc they aren't aggressive.

I wouldn't look for Mr/Miss Right in the club bc I can't even have a meaningful convo or even a light hearted convo in the club bc I can't hear a damn thing over the music! I love to dance anyway so I'm on the dance floor doing my thing, it's just not a good time for me
When I say Mr/Mrs Right of course the music is loud but you can get the number and vibe outside of the club. At first unless you work or see a person often you just going off looks anyway so that's why I don't think its necessarily a bad place to meet people at. Its not the venue IMO but the people but I guess some places are more filled with a certain type than others and I can see that. The ole I like to dance excuse you can dance at home unless you on some you got served battle shyt lol.
 
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@No_bammer_weed said:
y'all can take breaks from trolling thecoli, and watching porn all day, in order to google points of interest in your city for cheap or inexpensive dates ya know.

Y'all whine endlessly about not meeting quality women, but then there's endless threads like this where nikkas openly brag about being cheapskates and lowlifes, and wasting energy trying to bang equally desperate, unattractive women y'all meet at the club.

Ether...
 
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When I say Mr/Mrs Right of course the music is loud but you can get the number and vibe outside of the club. At first unless you work or see a person often you just going off looks anyway so that's why I don't think its necessarily a bad place to meet people at. Its not the venue IMO but the people but I guess some places are more filled with a certain type than others and I can see that. The ole I like to dance excuse you can dance at home unless you on some you got served battle shyt lol.

Tha's not an excuse, but fact...I realized that the 'scene' so to speak in Orlando isn't really conducive to dating so that's not my aim when I go out...it's more so to unwind and congregate with good friends. As far as attraction, a person can be attractive and something about them can turn you off...there are levels to dating and attraction and even 'hooking up'.

I actually find that a better venue to meet people are meet up groups where people share like interests...the only issue with that is attraction ... if it ain't one thing, it's another, such is life!
 

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Tha's not an excuse, but fact...I realized that the 'scene' so to speak in Orlando isn't really conducive to dating so that's not my aim when I go out...it's more so to unwind and congregate with good friends. As far as attraction, a person can be attractive and something about them can turn you off...there are levels to dating and attraction and even 'hooking up'.

I actually find that a better venue to meet people are meet up groups where people share like interests...the only issue with that is attraction ... if it ain't one thing, it's another, such is life!
I was just fukking with you because every girl says that and Im like OK if that's what y'all believe but I can't co sign it lol. Like you said you goto the meetup events and depending on what you into its like nah I'm cool on dating but we can be friends though. Don't goto Harry Potter functions for adults lol. fukk it you'll find somebody and until then you keep "dancing" the night away until then lol.
 
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I was just fukking with you because every girl says that and Im like OK if that's what y'all believe but I can't co sign it lol. Like you said you goto the meetup events and depending on what you into its like nah I'm cool on dating but we can be friends though. Don't goto Harry Potter functions for adults lol. fukk it you'll find somebody and until then you keep "dancing" the night away until then lol.

I haven't been out in a while dancing...it might be time to hit the floor!
For now, I'm scoping out the cuties at kickball!
 

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:sadcam:I cant stop taking women on dates......














:myman:Cuz i never started. Nah i been on a few first dates, no more than 10 in my life. Even in high school we didnt go on "dates" just hung out or went to parties/social gatherings together. Now it's come over and chill or its the bushes. I'll take my girlfriend on dates, but i've never been about spending any money on a woman who i havent spent time with previously. And they can miss me with that "i dont go to strange mens houses" cuz its hypocritical to feel that way yet want to have a strange man spend money on them.
 

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to each his/her own. i personally don't believe in taking chicks on dates when i don't know them like that.
 
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