How do you pursue a shy woman/man?

[SpeakherKnockin]

We're always going to run across those overly confident men and women.. but..

when you meet that ONE that's fine as hell but shy as fukk..It makes you go to the drawing board.. trying to strategize to bring them out of their shells..

Challenges >

 

[cleanface coney]

try to create an opportunity to shoot at her without it being so obvious

make your move on some "it just happened" type shyt

 

[Nintendough]

I get mistaken for being shy when i'm actually just distanced, cunning and observant. Its given me a lot of perspective on shy women .....


I have a very harmless/innocent appearance, I always smile and I can make any woman laugh at will....but at the same time, I make eye contact, I know how to be cold and go silent at well timed moments for no reason and I know how to give women soft commands. I'll tell a shy chick " aight we're goin' dance (said with gentle authority, no change in tone at the end of my statement implying that im asking her)", "sit over here", "hold this" etc to show her im the boss without being bossy, shy women can be lightly pushed and nudged into whatever direction a quietly dominant man wants her to go.


I know when and how to touch a shy woman too....if we been kickin it and I might just hold her hand because I feel like it or if im ready to go I might put my hand on her lower back and give her a light push when im ready to bounce.

 

[SpeakherKnockin]

try to create an opportunity to shoot at her without it being so obvious

make your move on some "it just happened" type shyt

What if you already knew her and you've always been interested but she just seemed neutral? Until one day she shot you a ;) LOL

I get mistaken for being shy when i'm actually just distanced, cunning and observant. Its given me a lot of perspective on shy women .....


I have a very harmless/innocent appearance, I always smile and I can make any woman laugh at will....but at the same time, I make eye contact, I know how to be cold and go silent at well timed moments for no reason and I know how to give women soft commands. I'll tell a shy chick " aight we're goin' dance (said with gentle authority, no change in tone at the end of my statement implying that im asking her)", "sit over here", "hold this" etc to show her im the boss without being bossy, shy women can be lightly pushed and nudged into whatever direction a quietly dominant man wants her to go.


I know when and how to touch a shy woman too....if we been kickin it and I might just hold her hand because I feel like it or if im ready to go I might put my hand on her lower back and give her a light push when im ready to bounce.

See that's good. You know how to be dominant without being aggressive. A lot of men don't know how to find that balance without seeming like a pusC or being controlling.

 

[cleanface coney]

What if you already knew her and you've always been interested but she just seemed neutral? Until one day she shot you a ;) LOL



See that's good. You know how to be dominant without being aggressive. A lot of men don't know how to find that balance without seeming like a pusC or being controlling.

honestly i been goin thru that all my life
alotta of femlaes let me know afterwards they liked me
they assume im coldhearted or stuck up becasue of how i talk
its just i got 3 sisters so my view on woman is a lil different
i get alot of yea i used to like you but.....or i told yo sister but......

its some girls i ran across where its like i didnt wanna fukk up
becasue she was so cool and laid back

in my experience( fukkin up and actually doin something)
you gotta make it seem like it just happened or it wasnt planned to make a move

or like bro said if you know she already liek you
you gotta kinda be the agressor because quiet girls tend to go with the flow
but nikkas be nervous in they own mind to do something so it never end up happening

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Stop being a wussy.

 

[DreadHead P]

Find the littlest thing to spark a convo about, the illusion of having something in common usually brings them out of their shell

 

[Clapsteel O'Neal]

I get mistaken for being shy when i'm actually just distanced, cunning and observant. Its given me a lot of perspective on shy women .....


I have a very harmless/innocent appearance, I always smile and I can make any woman laugh at will....but at the same time, I make eye contact, I know how to be cold and go silent at well timed moments for no reason and I know how to give women soft commands. I'll tell a shy chick " aight we're goin' dance (said with gentle authority, no change in tone at the end of my statement implying that im asking her)", "sit over here", "hold this" etc to show her im the boss without being bossy, shy women can be lightly pushed and nudged into whatever direction a quietly dominant man wants her to go.


I know when and how to touch a shy woman too....if we been kickin it and I might just hold her hand because I feel like it or if im ready to go I might put my hand on her lower back and give her a light push when im ready to bounce.

fukk all that...just be yourself nikka, and be assertive.If she's not going for it, fukk her stop being so scared to get told no. She should value your presence more than you value hers

 

[Dooby]

We're always going to run across those overly confident men and women.. but..

when you meet that ONE that's fine as hell but shy as fukk..It makes you go to the drawing board.. trying to strategize to bring them out of their shells..

Challenges >

Making her feel comfortable being herself around you is the first step and once you do that, well you're pretty much in. And how do you do that? By being confident. Don't be afraid to flaunt your flaws. Because shy girls amplify theirs, let it be known that you're flawed but you're still a great person with them. But what you DO NOT DO is downplay her flaws. You have to keep her on her toes by tastefully and the keyword is tastefully, playing on them, until she herself gets over them.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

be comfortable to be around for them and build on that man or woman

 

[Nintendough]

fukk all that...just be yourself nikka, and be assertive.If she's not going for it, fukk her stop being so scared to get told no. She should value your presence more than you value hers

I am being myself. I'm quiet by choice and I like to manipulate people.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Always seemed easier to me. idk

 

[Clapsteel O'Neal]

I am being myself. I'm quiet by choice and I like to manipulate people.

then how am I wrong?

 

[Nintendough]

then how am I wrong?

You weren't wrong....

 

[Non Sequitur]

When you finally do get them out of their shell, you can't get them to shut the fukk up