How do y'all expect to build strong black communities without marriage or having kids?
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marraige is not necessary in today's society nor is it necessary in order to build strong black communities. In order for us to succeed, I think we need to push ourselves to do better instead of enclosing ourselves in the bubble that society has put us in. we need more people saying that they want to be politicians and doctors and leaders in our community. do parents help foster this mindset? yes. but at the same time i think ppl need to think for themselves and motivate themselves instead on relying on others to do so
Shut up. In general we have high rates of unemployment and low rates of pay, we ain't conquering shyt without the help of one another.
Black Cobain
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he said shallow didn't say materialistic. those can mean different things.
and yes black women in America value looks over stability, income, and connections for sure. other communities don't put looks so high on the totem pole for choosing MATES.
Before babymamaship, was forced into the black community. Now a days alotta hoes have children by the same nikka.
never is it the most ambitious, successful, stable dude. I dont care either way, imma eat regardless
Black Cobain
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That's why you adopt themnikkas barely taking care of their own kids.
Yooo, LOL!These nikkas gone start blaming black women for their fukked up linings soon
I wasn't gonna comment on nothing in this thread...but nikka plz tell me this is a troll post. Assistance is assistance...
Most women aren't receiving cash benefits, only EBT
Breh, you're flaw is somehow connecting those who don't believe in those community structures somehow being the same people who are the ones who "big up the Jew, Asian and Mexican communities..."But then y'all big up the Jew, Asian and Mexican communities even though those two things are VERY important to all three of those groups?
I have no qualms big upping the strengths of those other communities AND I'm also in the promote structured family group.
You're comfortable providing evidence that the two contrasting views usually go hand in hand?
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marraige is not necessary in today's society nor is it necessary in order to build strong black communities. In order for us to succeed, I think we need to push ourselves to do better instead of enclosing ourselves in the bubble that society has put us in. we need more people saying that they want to be politicians and doctors and leaders in our community. do parents help foster this mindset? yes. but at the same time i think ppl need to think for themselves and motivate themselves instead on relying on others to do so
Huh? So build strong black communities outside of the family structure because that's how we raise more politicians, doctors and leaders? Are you suggesting that more "single" politicians, doctors and leaders would help us build stronger communities? Not hating, but I need clarification in order to understand where you're coming from.
If you actually encourage healthy relationships and long term marriages, wouldn't a more positive message consist of highlighting the benefits of marriage? I mean I definitely understand the risks, but I think in our community there are many more of us who are ignorant to the financial and emotional benefits than we are to the risks. Compatibility and monogamy are key to helping grow financial assets in a 50/50 partnership such as marriage. Not knocking your movement I just wonder what's the more progressive approach
Since you are the GMB liason:
I'll ask. Does GMB believe it's a good thing to get married to a good woman? And do they believe enough good women exist to make it a viable option for Black men?
To be real, breh, GMB rhetoric tends to be funny for some chuckles AND they tend to perpetuate the view that it's better to not TRY to have a goal of marriage because you're going to end up fukked up more times than not.
Is that a true assessment?
There's no such thing as a prosperous people with no families.marraige is not necessary in today's society nor is it necessary in order to build strong black communities. In order for us to succeed, I think we need to push ourselves to do better instead of enclosing ourselves in the bubble that society has put us in. we need more people saying that they want to be politicians and doctors and leaders in our community. do parents help foster this mindset? yes. but at the same time i think ppl need to think for themselves and motivate themselves instead on relying on others to do so
Where does your reference point of community come from without a family?
Pro black? Half of the brehs here date pawgsbe on a pro-black forum and diss black women, brehs
Why do many black women continue to procreate with loser thugs?
Yes, it is a good thing to be married to a good woman. But our belief is that these woman are not available in abundance. You may find your options to be limited in Western culture.
However if you are willing to expand your search to the vast African diaspora of the world then 
The opportunities are endless