How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

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sounds like your turning into a battymon breh....well, atleast the primary stages

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this is what your future looks like:gag::gag::gag::gag:
 

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The best thing to do which worked for me is to not hang out with prettyboys or focus on other men's sex lives.

Even if you're getting a normal amount of p*ssy, these nikkas will make you look at women different.

I knew this one breh with blue eyes. He showed me his instagram DMs.

He had all sorts of bad ig models hitting him up first and willing to do anything he asks.

When I compare that type of shyt to how women react to me :francis:

It once took me a whole summer to get a kiss from a childhood crush. It took the local prettyboy a day to get the same kiss.

In college, I hung out all semester with this one broad, playing it cool. Then a 6'4" dude who SHE called corny came out of nowhere and brought her flowers. He smashed within two weeks.

Another chick I had a heavy crush on last year:
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I brought these all on myself. I know that.

But it sucks knowing that my prettyboy homies have better looking chicks than that hitting them up FIRST and worshipping them.

I resented women for it, but now have accepted that it's how nature works.
Props for sharing. I think that is dope that OP and others on the forum are talking about it.

What I think is important to bring up is that it isn't as simple as good looks when it comes to dating success. I am an average looking guy with a lot of dating success. Personally, I think the main difference between very good looking men and average/unattractive men is simply the opportunities for experience.

For people that are very attractive, they don't have a choice when it comes to gaining experience with women. That experience in my opinion matters more than their looks when it comes to dating. It isn't solely because of their good looks, but that their good looks give them more opportunities for experience so that they can navigate interacting with women better. That is why it takes you an entire summer to get a kiss while it took the more attractive (but also more importantly, more experienced) person a lot less time.

The constructive thing to do isn't to be frustrated that others gain experience easier, but to focus on how you can gain more experience personally
 
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Exposure. Get off of forums and go mert and hang with actual women.

shyts no different than white folk being angry and racist towards us and women. Whole forums built for anonymous hate.

For real thecoli especially now is not a healthy place. Nor is social media. Go live and meet and interact with sctual people and you'll realize some ppl are shytty and others arent so bad.
 

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Also I think its lame AF for people to talk shyt about the coli when all y'all post here lol

Why is it cool to shyt on something you all enjoy. Judgmental dikkheads
If you've been here long enough, you've seen it go from jokes and dope information to trolling and unhealthy shyt being spewed here. You'd be suprised how much its starting to resemble white forums.

If you still love it and enjoy it, more power to you bruh! no judgement dawg. Ive just noticed the change and others have too.
 

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The best thing to do which worked for me is to not hang out with prettyboys or focus on other men's sex lives.

Even if you're getting a normal amount of p*ssy, these nikkas will make you look at women different.

I knew this one breh with blue eyes. He showed me his instagram DMs.

He had all sorts of bad ig models hitting him up first and willing to do anything he asks.

When I compare that type of shyt to how women react to me :francis:

It once took me a whole summer to get a kiss from a childhood crush. It took the local prettyboy a day to get the same kiss.

In college, I hung out all semester with this one broad, playing it cool. Then a 6'4" dude who SHE called corny came out of nowhere and brought her flowers. He smashed within two weeks.

Another chick I had a heavy crush on last year:
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I brought these all on myself. I know that.

But it sucks knowing that my prettyboy homies have better looking chicks than that hitting them up FIRST and worshipping them.

I resented women for it, but now have accepted that it's how nature works.
That spoiler :laff:
Welcome to the basic ass nikka brigade :myman:
 

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No... this isnt the true nature of a female...
But I've adapted to the world around me... I'm eating . The shyt is way too easy now...
So I've had to pull myself out of all this shyt...
They are literally like dealing with children...
That's not the true nature of women
Help a breh eat too
 

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We all take L's breh, you have to learn from them get into stoic philosophy and read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a fukk, your current state of mind is dangerous and you could end up harming innocent people if you don't change

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I think it helps to understand the nature of women so you aren't disappointed.

Most women are just children in grown bodies. If you learn to expect from a woman what you would expect from a child, you'll be ok.

But when you run across an actual mature woman (they're out there) then you gotta treat her right.
Why you think so many of us struggle to get our foot in the door with women?
 

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That spoiler :laff:
Welcome to the basic ass nikka brigade :myman:

That L hurt the most because I knew some of her family and vice versa. So word definitely got back to them.

On the bright side, I got revenge by messing with her best friend. Could've fukked, but I had a bad crib situation.

I plan on completing my revenge by getting at one her cousins.

Basic ass nikka is a very accurate description
 

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That L hurt the most because I knew some of her family and vice versa. So word definitely got back to them.

On the bright side, I got revenge by messing with her best friend. Could've fukked, but I had a bad crib situation.

I plan on completing my revenge by getting at one her cousins.

Basic ass nikka is a very accurate description
I've been there. I wrote a girl a fukking note in highschool.
 

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If you want to achieve more and have a better life, you need to become more. You become more by using bad circumstances for good results. Oh and print this out (see spoiler) or better yet draw it on the floor beneath your bed. I'll tell you what to with it later.

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Sometimes idk if breh trolling lol
 

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No... this isnt the true nature of a female...
But I've adapted to the world around me... I'm eating . The shyt is way too easy now...
So I've had to pull myself out of all this shyt...
They are literally like dealing with children...
That's not the true nature of women


That is the nature of a woman who hasn't had the guidance and wisdom of a man,which is what you are witnessing as the problem just continues to be generational. Even the ones who have men in their life,the men are disinterested in giving guidance to them on how to be righteous women. Once you see them as children and take it upon yourself to do what other men are unwilling to do,OUT THE GATE,you will be much more satisfied. And the women will be far more appreciative even if you have to cut them off,they will realize the difference between a real man and these other men who don't give a damn about having reckless,loud mouthed hellhounds around as long as they are giving up p*ssy.These women are not women you want to have around you if you aren't doing the work,or willing to do the work. Because unlike actual children,women aren't innocent and often be made to have evil intentions,or act recklessly and put you at risk.
 
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