How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

[Exlurkernegro]

I don't resent women, but I do resent God tho.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I'm starting to resent them and I really don't want to.

I understand that it's completely unhealthy and I don't want it to get any worse than it already is.

Hit the gym. Just put most of your free time there. Obviously bulk or cut depending on your body.

Stop being thirsty, just have fun meeting women. Simply flirt with a girl that you find attractive.

Grind for this paper

Let's do it!

 

[Rozay Oro]

I don't resent women, but I do resent God tho.

I can understand where you coming from. So many times I have asked God for help and put in my effort too. I was patiently blessed.

Give it a shot breh

 

[TrebleMan]

Naw.

Outside of work it's the only interaction with people I have.

And blaming this place for any of my resentment towards women is not only false it's unfair to the people who post here.

These hoes ain't swiping right on me

Both of these posts indicate you're waiting for shyt to happen breh.

For the bolded, got to go out there and meet people. If some of your co-workers are down to go out, hit up some spots for happy hour or something in order to talk to other folks.


Now granted, there are some folks who are fortunate. But the key thing here, is not to give up if luck hasn't hit you the same. Its your life and your responsibility to do what you can, even though it may not always work out.

Remember:
Going into resentment is the "easy" option but also the least rewarding one and in vast amounts of cases holds the lowest of potentials.

This post really drilled it:

Well first of all you gotta realize they're different. That doesn't mean they're unequal.

You're probably putting male values on them. Want them to be funny, thought provoking, lead conversations? Not happening

Second, stop giving a fukk what external forces are doing if you can't control them. Resent them all you want, but they won't change. So you better figure out how YOU can work on yourself to achieve your goals with them.

 

[semicko82]

I don't resent women, but I do resent God tho.

 

[blaccbeard]

Step 1: Get off the internet
Step 2: Go outside and build a shed
Step 3: Go have a drink at the bar and talk to real women
Step 4:
Step 5: Profit

 

[semicko82]

Step 1: Get off the internet
Step 2: Go outside and build a shed
Step 3: Go have a drink at the bar and talk to real women
Step 4:
Step 5: Profit

Build a shed???

 

[Exlurkernegro]

What's funny?

 

[semicko82]

What's funny?

nothin breh, just having a little Saturday fun

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

There is nothing wrong when resenting woman. You just have to learn how to not let it take over your life.

You have had bad experiences with women and from that naturally comes resentment.

These folks on this very board whine day and night about the white man and their resentment toward him for the things "he's" done to them yet don't blink an eye in the case when someone feels the same about women.

Men and women alike expect you to coddle and respect women no matter how vile they are. Don't buy into that. The men who get the most women and are most successful with women don't buy into that p*ssy on a pedestal narrative.

So again, don't shy away from the resentment. It's just a part of growing up or growing older.

How old are you breh

 

[Cat piss martini]

p*ssy/

 

[chowism]

your sig we apart of the same gangs

Real nikkas gotta stick together

 

[semicko82]

What caused your resentment OP

 

[Da_Eggman]

What caused your resentment OP

These hoes ain’t loyal

 

[JackRoss]

The best thing to do which worked for me is to not hang out with prettyboys or focus on other men's sex lives.

Even if you're getting a normal amount of p*ssy, these nikkas will make you look at women different.

I knew this one breh with blue eyes. He showed me his instagram DMs.

He had all sorts of bad ig models hitting him up first and willing to do anything he asks.

When I compare that type of shyt to how women react to me

It once took me a whole summer to get a kiss from a childhood crush. It took the local prettyboy a day to get the same kiss.

In college, I hung out all semester with this one broad, playing it cool. Then a 6'4" dude who SHE called corny came out of nowhere and brought her flowers. He smashed within two weeks.

Another chick I had a heavy crush on last year:

Spoiler: text

I brought these all on myself. I know that.

But it sucks knowing that my prettyboy homies have better looking chicks than that hitting them up FIRST and worshipping them.

I resented women for it, but now have accepted that it's how nature works.

That spoiler