Honestly brehs, can women really be THAT bad?!

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I don't think they did, from what my dad desribe his dating life was a lot like ours but without all the STDS and people dying over p*ssy. Remember him telling me the time he was dating this chick and she was lazy as fukk. He went to work 6am came back at 5pm just to see that woman still in her bed clothes watching tv with her house looking the same and no food cooked asking if he was buying burger king.

He told her yeah, left out and never came back :dead:

Are you familiar with the wire when cuddy said " the game done changed " and Slim charles said " its still the same...just more fierce. Thats how I feel about the generations. Same shyt, more STDs :skip:

I have ran into some great quality women that feel the same way about us men. It is what it is though.


Just keep your head clear, your dikk wrap and your pockets safe.


It could also be that I live in a morally bankrupt region like South Florida of all places :shaq2:
 

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so first it was you value companionship to the point where you would do anything to make your woman happy...but now it's that you refuse to invest your all into a woman? :ld:


My legacy is my foundation, my dreams, my life.

Foundation as in mental and emotion stability (avoiding bitterness or fear)

Dreams ( wanna be a police officer or a sport team nutritionist/trainer)

Life ( accomplishing all of these things and being happy)

Men tend to give these up for women aka investing in a long shot and thats not me. Long as I have my legacy Im good. If she goes, then guess what? Im stable enough to move on and cont building until the right one comes. I won't be broken, I won't bitter. I will be hurt but I can move on without abandoning the man I was then cause its nothing wrong with that I did. Unlike those that invest it ALL into women and have nothing but a icebox and wanna be reborn again:skip:

I love women for many reason but the main reason is companionship. Like its nothing like coming home to seeing an woman that adore and that will pretty much do everything in her power to make you happy and vice versa.

I said do everything in our power, not give :skip:

Doing everything = supporting each other mentality, emotionally and financial.

Last time I check we dont have to sacrifice dreams, goals etc to do that.

Like if she asked me hunny I don't want you to be a cop or a athletic trainer cause it will be hard on our relationship and I say ok I won't. 10 years later she leaves and takes whatever she can get...what do I have then?


Thats where a lot men get fukked up at they sacrifice shyt and when it doesnt work out they turn into bitter ass babies who wanna go on strike, you don't hear men that have establish a legacy crying about that. They lose millions in a divorce.. a house or whatever. They be like :manny: fukk it I can build another and find another women that they can love.


Never sacrifice shyt for anyone, either they get right with you or get left. You can still make a woman happy just by doing whats fair on your behalf. Any woman that want you to sacrifice something can get thrown in the bushes.
 

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It could also be that I live in a morally bankrupt region like South Florida of all places :shaq2:

Even a flower can bloom on a battlefield my nikka :obama: plus nothing wrong with packing your shyt up and moving :smugbiden:

If you feel that your environment isnt good women friendly then seek women else where :blessed:
 
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My legacy is my foundation, my dreams, my life.

Foundation as in mental and emotion stability (avoiding bitterness or fear)

Dreams ( wanna be a police officer or a sport team nutritionist/trainer)

Life ( accomplishing all of these things and being happy)

Men tend to give these up for women aka investing in a long shot and thats not me. Long as I have my legacy Im good. If she goes, then guess what? Im stable enough to move on and cont building until the right one comes. I won't be broken, I won't bitter. I will be hurt but I can move on without abandoning the man I was then cause its nothing wrong with that I did. Unlike those that invest it ALL into women and have nothing but a icebox and wanna be reborn again:skip:



I said do everything in our power, not give :skip:

Doing everything = supporting each other mentality, emotionally and financial.

Last time I check we dont have to sacrifice dreams, goals etc to do that.

Like if she asked me hunny I don't want you to be a cop or a athletic trainer cause it will be hard on our relationship and I say ok I won't. 10 years later she leaves and takes whatever she can get...what do I have then?


Thats where a lot men get fukked up at they sacrifice shyt and when it doesnt work out they turn into bitter ass babies who wanna go on strike, you don't hear men that have establish a legacy crying about that. They lose millions in a divorce.. a house or whatever. They be like :manny: fukk it I can build another and find another women that they can love.


Never sacrifice shyt for anyone, either they get right with you or get left. You can still make a woman happy just by doing whats fair on your behalf. Any woman that want you to sacrifice something can get thrown in the bushes.
you backpedaled but i'll dap you anyway :mjpls:
 

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If you man, this world can be yours. Including the women in it.

Its a mentality that men nowadays are missing and a lot of women can't help but take advantage of it.
 

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it's well within your power to give up being a police officer and making your woman happy if she thought that job was too dangerous



and its well within her power to stand by me knowing the risk involved. Policing is dangerous yes. But she knew this before she decided to love me. If she loved me enough she will be there long as I can deliver my end of the bargain of being a good provider.

Now if Im letting the stress of the job get to me and Im taking out on her then she has her right to leave. But most women know the risk of being with law enforcement and they accepted it. I will expect her to do the same.

Im not gonna sacrifice anything for a woman or anyone I just can't...I can love them, care for them, provide for them but sacrificing no...thats out of the picture. I rather for us to break up and fine someone else can support my career.
 

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women like dominant men....too many men being raised by women is one of the reasons why most struggle to keep a woman or be with a woman.

They have been raised like b!tches their whole lives. The law of attraction prevents too b!tches from co-existing.
 
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A lot of the problem is 'the system.' A lot of men and women started off on decent enough terms, but for some reason or another, things went sour, and the guy got tore up in divorce court. Most women are cool as long as you know the proper context to deal with them in and you constantly watch the capacity in which you allow her to enter your life. Marrying a woman that is not marriage material or making minor miscalculations can set you back for a very long time.

Lot of the dudes who cry the loudest on here never been married tho... including you :patrice:
 

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its only a war for those that cant grasp the simplicity of women. Its not fukking rocket science man. I love women for many reason but the main reason is companionship. Like its nothing like coming home to seeing an woman that adore and that will pretty much do everything in her power to make you happy and vice versa. Starting a family, cooking together, playing around in the kitchen, watching tv etc. I would come home from work and see my parents both knocked out on the couch watching all hugged up and what not.

I seen them get at each other throats a bunch of times, even had a small split (him moving into the garbage :skip:) but at the end of the day theyre still together. This is what I seen growing up. No good relationship is without its trials, but if she worth it then why not fight?

Seem a lot of people ( mostly us men ) feel as though just because they do good shyt for women like buy them shyt, treat them with respect etc that women are supposed to like us. As if the aura from our love and dedication is suppose to change their minds about being with us. A lot of dudes be hopped on this drug that society has been giving us since...well forever. Its doesnt matter how good you treat a woman, it will not make her love you. Dudes find this out the hard way and wanna become bitter, thus this friction/war we have with them. Or they did us wrong, cheated on us, lead us on etc.

Due to us hearing stories about gold diggers, millionaires losing it all etc. Every guy wanna have a plan to avoid this happening to them. We wanna try to out think women, we wanna play the cat and mouse game. In reality all they are doing is just distancing themselves from women period and can't tell who is friend or foe...thus the term asexual pops up as a cop out for some...(not saying thats the case all) but most dudes that claim this title still watches and get aroused by porn :yeshrug: where they do that at?


At the end of they day women will be women...divas, high maintenance, trailer thrash, hoodrats, aggy, whores, caring, loving, submissive, respectful etc. Gotta go through them all, cant make a omelet without cracking a few eggs :manny:

While you have some valid points, I feel that the values of women in general are completely fukked off since they have a tendency to gravitates towards things/people that do not even remotely have anything to do with positivity/moral decency yet have the audacity to complain about the consequences of their actions. And I believe that this is the main problem that many men have with women, but it is always dismissed as these guys being bitter.
 
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