I agree with you 100%. Just recently I arguing with a women that's pretty much what you describe but her looks and sex appeal remained in tact. Still her mind wasnt, she's still married with two kids from different relationships. We was cool, very close...even had sex a couple of times. Over the years things begin to go sour due my choices in finding a suitable spouse to build with. Main reason was she didnt fit into that category that I was looking for. She's 27
Had to break it down to her and I told her, "while Im far from being ugly and undesirable if I would have came to you before you made these bad choices that causing you so much trouble emotionally and financially you wouldnt give me the time of day" I know this for a fact cause some women just don't think about the future with a man that has a shytty track record. Their perception of men are just ass-backwards sometimes. She describe her babies fathers to me and Im the complete opposite. As far as looks, money, mentality etc. Both of them were exactly the same...so of course she would make the same choice twice...but how do I come in?
Im the guy, thats nice, calm, respectful, dependable, faithful etc. Something that she had to fail twice to notice in a decent man. Reformed woman as you would say. She tried to get me but I just gave have her dikk
and threw her in the bushes from ever being my girlfriend.
If her head was on straight, had her own pockets, 1 kid then maybe
but fukk no.
I need
a woman that's not broken