Hol up Lucy liu CHOSE to be a single mother?

[Tommy Knocks]

So if Lucy Liu decided to have a child with a man, then suddenly they live in south central, sleep on the floor, have 3 siblings, and use EBT??

I mean i get your point but you're not really comparing like to like situations.

A better comparison would be to use the same example u did (either one, rich or poor) and then add a father and tell me if thats better or worse.

I never said Lucy Liu son will be worse off than a poor persons son, i said i believe a 2 parent household in a loving marriage is optimal. Rich people can come from 2 parent households too.... most do actually

60% of marriages end in divorce. didnt jeff and bill gates divorce recently?

co parenting is a thing. granted this is different because the kid wont know who his father is and thats a little messed up, thats where we agree. but there are foster kids else where in much more darker situations. if youre going to have a single parent, this would probably be the best bet. is all im saying.

 

[desjardins]

if you rich and need to adopt then why not
this is one of the plots on The Chi this season, Tabitha Brown is some successful business woman trying adopt the sister that got raped baby

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You sound like you don’t have kids.

I would argue most parents, regardless of race, would agree that it’s easier to raise their already existing child than it is to find a good mate, cultivate that relationship, and then maintain it until the day you die.

Well, not so much that it’s easier. It’s just a given ima always be a parent, even if I’m no longer a wife. My relationship might not work out but I would always be there to parent my child.

Her child didn't already exist tho

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Speaks volumes imo... but that's a whole different thread

love to visit that thread. you might consider making it fam.

 

[Gold]

60% of marriages end in divorce. didnt jeff and bill gates divorce recently?

co parenting is a thing. granted this is different because the kid wont know who his father is and thats a little messed up, thats where we agree. but there are foster kids else where in much more darker situations. if youre going to have a single parent, this would probably be the best bet. is all im saying.

I fully agree with the bolded.
If you are absolutely.. 100% going to have kid as a single parent no matter what... then yes you cant do much better than this.

 

[Diondon]

She was busy working and shyt

 

[JLova]

This isn't nearly as uncommon as you think it is. Quite a few women will give birth or adopt a child and raise the child on their own willingly.

Have a boy that got a call from a girl saying she’s pregnant and wants nothing to do with him and she will raise the baby on her own. She doesn’t want any aid.

 

[threattonature]

I don't see the problem. If she hasn't found a man she wants to have kids with or a relationship worthwhile why shouldn't she be able to go this route. When have a limited time frame to be able to have children. She has the means to support the kid so I don't see a problem with it. Rather she do this then be in a bad relationship because she's desperate to have kids.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Wait she’s too busy to cultivate a relationship with a significant other but has the time to raise a child?

Yup!

The amount of people in this thread that are basically saying that the man has no value in the family structure, or that there is no value in the family structure in general. I'd like to say that I'm shocked, but I'm not.

Yup Grown ass men too.... But then maybe not

 

[threattonature]

Have a boy that got a call from a girl saying she’s pregnant and wants nothing to do with him and she will raise the baby on her own. She doesn’t want any aid.

Yeah I've had a few different females that asked me to father their children. They said that they'd sign documents absolving me from all rights as the father and they wouldn't want any support. They basically said they liked my genes since they thought I was nice looking and intelligent. Only reason I didn't do it is because I couldn't stand having a kid out there in the world that was mine and not be in its life.

 

[AMcV'88]

I get it. she was probably at the stage and age were she was beyond freezing the eggs and wanted a child.
she's wealthy, most likely has a good support system for the kid. good for her.

New York born and raised, a model, an actress, an artist/painter, rich, does charity work...and of course, a very good looking woman.
she clearly knows her worth and what she wants... I think I love her.

 

[Pazzy]

Read a yahoo article about another woman doing this. Toxic femininity and incredibly selfish. Think about the kids. That kid is going to be an adult one day that is going to think for themselves. You know how many screwed up people out here with daddy issues from abandonment, absent fathers and etc because of selfish mothers? Same reason why you dont have too many men out here. Just boys or emasculated men. fukk these people trying to kill masculinity. We need both manhood and womanhood. Treating men as sperm donors so you can be a mother is corny. How does a woman explain to her child that their father is a sperm donor?

Not saying she cant do what she does but the odds are against her. Hope shes doing her best to keep her child out of a cage because i dont want to have to worry about another human being whos the product of bad parenting.

 

[HARLEM AL]

find a new relationship. Why would I want to raise these kids by myself? I’d do it if I had to. It’s too many quality women I know or known.

Why yall entertaining shorty? She just going to suspend logic.

 

[Sccit]

 

[Professor Emeritus]

Child didn't get any say if he wants a father or not

They almost never do. Weird cause some of the complaints here are logical yet this is the exact same site where #GMB gets 100 daps automatically and posters constantly clown anyone who wifes a single mom.