You sound like you don’t have kids.
I would argue most parents, regardless of race, would agree that it’s easier to raise their already existing child than it is to find a good mate, cultivate that relationship, and then maintain it until the day you die.
Well, not so much that it’s easier. It’s just a given ima always be a parent, even if I’m no longer a wife. My relationship might not work out but I would always be there to parent my child.
Might be easier for her, might be more difficult for the child to grow up without a father.
Especially seeing as how mother is talking about how busy she is