Hol up Lucy liu CHOSE to be a single mother?

Tom Foolery

You're using way too many napkins.
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
21,934
Reputation
6,667
Daps
92,935
Reppin
Boardwalk and Park Place
We have talked it out. You just went on to a different goal post,tried ignoring that i said , because you want to end the convo with the final post. I'm gonna quote you back until you finished.

Also yes Several people quoted me and said he looks mixed, so? I said he could be. Nothing to debate, you just terrible at discourse and trying to win some non existent argument. I'll be here when you done
Oh, I'm done with your slow, learning disability ass. What you say going forward is nothing.

Your emotional ass negged me, I negged you back. Nothing more to be said. I see what you really are.
Have the last word. Just make sure you do it correctly, because you seem to ..................... well you know.:mjlol:
 

Ashley Banks

All I ever wanted was the world
Joined
Jun 19, 2012
Messages
28,009
Reputation
9,696
Daps
117,512
Don’t take advice from women who defend a lifestyle or choice to death that they don’t live themselves.

You got married to a man before you brought children into this world through natural childbirth.

No one wants to hear about the exception to the rule. The Stats say that children who are raised in homes with both a father and mother turn out much better than those raised in single parents households.

Get all that bullshyt “what if” nonsense out of here. You ain’t living by those what if bullshyt notions.

men really cheat, men really leave, divorce rates are high. It’s a legit concern when family planning. You’re basing How her child will live based off the same “what if’s”. So why should she get married and deal with issues that come with it based off your “what if’s” but she can’t choose to do it on her own based off of her own “what if’s”?

Yes I got married before I had kids but that won’t matter if my husband decides to leave or cheat, will it?? I’ll still be a single mom.
 

Claudex

Lord have mercy!
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2014
Messages
6,181
Reputation
3,718
Daps
18,512
Reppin
Motherland
We’d debate with him everyday and he’d have a scientific clapback for everything.

The oldest child is the most confident and attractive. I wouldn’t know personally because I’m an only child but my wife had our kids at 19, 21 and 23. No fur babies
.:ufdup:

Even the psychologist was on that bullshyt - he’d come into the canteen and gossip about the patients with us.

Apparently, Mrs. Williams is on her last egg and her husband’s demanding a divorce if this last attempt kicks the bucket but you know me, I ain’t one to gossip
.” :sas2:

:pachaha:
Your boss with the shyts brehette. :mjlol:
Converting errbody to the #nofurbabies gang outchea. :pachaha:
fukk around and make me want to look for girls under 25 for my kids. :russ:
 

Luke Cage

Coffee Lover
Supporter
Joined
Jul 18, 2012
Messages
48,811
Reputation
17,560
Daps
251,491
Reppin
Harlem
Oh, I'm done with your slow, learning disability ass. What you say going forward is nothing.

Your emotional ass negged me, I negged you back. Nothing more to be said. I see what you really are.
Have the last word. Just make sure you do it correctly, because you seem to ..................... well you know.:mjlol:
:mjgrin:
You seem genuinely disturbed by a simple opinion. If you feel that way, do you. I already admitted you could be right in my original post. Was nothing to talk about to start with. :yeshrug:
Not my fault you get over emotional about everything. Now you obsessing over a neg. if it doesn't bother you and i'm the one being emotional (not really, you just projecting, thats why neg also bothered you so much) why keep bringing it up? Anyways like said, the convo is over.
 

SheWantTheD

Veteran
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
39,511
Reputation
2,015
Daps
97,930
men really cheat, men really leave, divorce rates are high. It’s a legit concern when family planning. You’re basing How her child will live based off the same “what if’s”. So why should she get married and deal with issues that come with it based off your “what if’s” but she can’t choose to do it on her own based off of her own “what if’s”?

Yes I got married before I had kids but that won’t matter if my husband decides to leave or cheat, will it?? I’ll still be a single mom.
80% of divorces are initiated BY WOMEN. Women are the ones that more often times than not end relationships NOT MEN.

So what if your man cheated? If you leave your man for cheating and y'all have a family together.. good luck finding a replacement.

You are a destroyer of women. You will defend and preach your home girl's behaviors and actions that lead to a life of sadness and dysfunction when you yourself would not partake in such behavior.

If you made sure you were married before having children don't tell women not to do the same.

You can reply all you want, I'm done here.
 

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,905
Daps
24,270
Reppin
So Cal
The amount of people in this thread that are basically saying that the man has no value in the family structure, or that there is no value in the family structure in general. I'd like to say that I'm shocked, but I'm not.
They were raised in broken homes and it's a "I turned out fine/didn't miss out on anything" defense mechanism, seen it all too often. Also it defense mechanism people who know they can't attract a mate they want to not have to deal with their shortcomings.
 

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,905
Daps
24,270
Reppin
So Cal
Yeah, reading threads like this just reminds me how differently I think/move from most people on this site.

Just toss some money at it, dads aint needed :francis:

Nah breh it ain't this site it's the country/the world. I've found as I age an astounding amount of people don't get it, and moreover haven't really even heard of let alone understand it.
 
Last edited:

Kyle C. Barker

Migos VERZUZ Mahalia Jackson
Joined
Feb 5, 2015
Messages
27,951
Reputation
9,303
Daps
119,965
I'd imagine the statistics on children raised by wealthy single parents households are far more favorable than children raised by working-class dual-parent households breh :mjlol:
Her support system definitely still exists, and she has the wealth to support the child fully


I have a friend that's good friends with with the the family that owns Maryland live casino as well as A bunch of major commercial properties in New Jersey and New York City.

I've met the couple before and they are out and about hanging out all times of hours at night because they have full time au pairs and chefs.

That said a A kid being raised by a single mother worth millions is a whole different experience than a kid being raised by a single parent in the working class
 

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,905
Daps
24,270
Reppin
So Cal
This is pretty common among both sexes and if we are talking about black people in the US it is very popular. Jaded women give up on love and would rather quench that motherly desire by having a child alone. Men still not ready to settle down go around planting seeds and having babies without commitment. They both get what they want without heartache and headache I guess.

Knock it off most black women are doing what you said. Most black men are not, the stats prove it, we have a thread on here about it. Stop with the false equivalency.
 
Joined
Jul 6, 2018
Messages
2,498
Reputation
1,304
Daps
10,899
Reppin
London baby.
Your boss with the shyts brehette. :mjlol:
Converting errbody to the #nofurbabies gang outchea. :pachaha:
fukk around and make me want to look for girls under 25 for my kids. :russ:

Every chick in there had a kid by the time they were 25, me included :dead:

We had the odd miracle baby too.

One patient had her 2nd kid at 71.

We were all congratulating her in the group email when she sent us a pic; he turned to us like, “71?! When the breasts drop, the love STOPS!” :camby:

We’re like, “you helped conceive this one” :skip:

He’s like, “oh it was MY handy-work? Marvellous.” :leon:

:pachaha:
 

colicolicoli

Droid Gang
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
4,419
Reputation
1,045
Daps
13,919
Reppin
LBC
Top