Hate the assumption that quiet men are insecure or shy

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I have to agree with this 100%
I am often considered shy around people because I don't talk much or feel like makin myself heard all the damn time.

But I also find it funny when those ppl think you have broken outside of some kind of "shell"
When they see you talkin out or doin something they think is different

I'm not the type of dude that talks for the sake of talkin. I'm not loud or boastful, but when I got something to say them I'm gonna say it.
Shiiet

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This is my whole thing. People on here will post up all day...

... but then say they just like to keep their thoughts to themselves, don't feel the need to say what's on their mind, etc. :mjpls:


Y'all not foolin' anyone. You're shy. You're free and open on here because the "intimidation" factor is low because no one can see/knows you. In real life when these factors do apply, you're quiet because of your circumstances, not because you want to be..

Some people are just extremely introverted and don't care to make meaningless small talk with annoying, loud ass people on a daily basis.

Talking online is preferred because it's not loud. You can find like-minded individuals like yourself and find topics that you actually care about, rather than force yourself to participate in the meaningless crap people say to each other just for the sake of speaking.
 

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fukk it i am shy on top of that i dont relate to shyt muhfukkas be talking about so i talk less :manny:

im still a real nicca tho :birdman:
 

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When I'm quiet it's not cuz I'm shy, it's cuz I'm arrogant. I often ask myself before speaking "Are these people around me worthy to hear my thoughts and opinions?" If I'm in a room full of chickenheads and ig'nant nikkas the answer is no and I will be at my most quiet.
 

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I'm quiet simply because most people aren't that interesting 90% of the humans on the planet be on the six S's...sleep, shyt, shower, sex, sustenance or some type of substance

zzzzzzzz

Bring up something real and I'll be the loudest mf in the room.
 

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Some people are just extremely introverted and don't care to make meaningless small talk with annoying, loud ass people on a daily basis.
Talking online is preferred because it's not loud. You can find like-minded individuals like yourself and find topics that you actually care about, rather than force yourself to participate in the meaningless crap people say to each other just for the sake of speaking.
If you wren't so shy, you'd be less focused on what other people were talking about and how it annoyed you, and more focused on how you can direct and lead the conversation/dialogue yourself with the topics you want rather than passively thinking to yourself.

:usure:
 

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People always think im a stuck up bytch if I dont talk to them its just that Im so jaded and cynical I really have no desire to make new friends. If Im schmoozing Im the life of the party though :jawalrus:
 

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This is my whole thing. People on here will post up all day...

... but then say they just like to keep their thoughts to themselves, don't feel the need to say what's on their mind, etc. :mjpls:


Y'all not foolin' anyone. You're shy. You're free and open on here because the "intimidation" factor is low because no one can see/knows you. In real life when these factors do apply, you're quiet because of your circumstances, not because you want to be..

Sigmund Freud ass nikka, chill. :skip: I'm quiet around people I don't know or nothing in common with. I'm far from shyy...just hate that small talk bullshyt. :troll:
 

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Sigmund Freud ass nikka, chill. :skip: I'm quiet around people I don't know or nothing in common with.
Uhhh, that would make you shy....

If that was your normal state around anyone, you could say you're reclusive, but since you switch it up and it's conditional and based on the elements of the situation you're in, you're shy.
 

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Uhhh, that would make you shy....

If that was your normal state around anyone, you could say you're reclusive, but since you switch it up and it's conditional and based on the elements of the situation you're in, you're shy.

Whatever nikka....:pachaha: I refuse to talk to my cac co-workers discuss the Office and Dr. Who and whatever else lame tv shows and I have nothing in common with the Asian geeks in my classes. Not afraid or bashful of anyone. :childplease:
 
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