Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[DraymondT]

Nah but no longer datin broke bytches no matter how bad

You gotta at least be seein me financially if not richer if I'm puttin up wit all the shyt that comes wit relationships from social to financial.

NGL one of my cousins friends feelin me. She makin that bread gotta be 6 figs easy..... She a 4/10 in the face though. Decent shape..... Got some ass I could work wit. She always wit her natural hair too. A nikka really thinkin to go for it. I'm way out her league looks wise but I might be willin to give it a try and compromise

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

@DatLBCGuy562 do you still feel the same way as you did when you first posted this?

Yes I do. Even more so…why do you ask?

 

[Pazzy]

Honestly, at this point, i dont care anymore so you can say Im not searching or looking. Im actually VERY pissed off honestly and been so for a LONG time that i dont even talk about. Im tired of seeing and watching everybody fall in love, be in their little relationships, partnerships, marriages and whatever the fukk and NOT ME ESPECIALLY AT 38 just HOPING, being the late fukking bloomer as ive ALWAYS been that i even get a chance. fukk watching all these other people especially these folks with 2, 3, 4 shyts going on and stunting about.
shyt doesnt seem to find me. Dead last, feeling unwanted, either having people that im not interested in or attracted to coming up to me, and fukking bullshyt. Why cant someone that i like or want want or like me back? shyt makes me feel like knocking and whooping peoples heads in for real but i just keep the anger and hostility to myself instead of talking about it. If i cant have fun or experience shyt then i might as well give people my misery or bitterness. I feel like saying fukk all you people who gotta problem with what i said and to suck a dikk too. Sometimes i just feel like approaching random couples and just punching folks in the face or robbing their asses just to get out my frustrations. It is what it is.

 

[winb83]

Nah but no longer datin broke bytches no matter how bad

You gotta at least be seein me financially if not richer if I'm puttin up wit all the shyt that comes wit relationships from social to financial.

NGL one of my cousins friends feelin me. She makin that bread gotta be 6 figs easy..... She a 4/10 in the face though. Decent shape..... Got some ass I could work wit. She always wit her natural hair too. A nikka really thinkin to go for it. I'm way out her league looks wise but I might be willin to give it a try and compromise

A woman that's your financial equal has better options than you. Not saying it can't happen but from that woman's perspective why shouldn't she date up instead of even?

The many men are dating / married to a woman that brought less to the table than they did.

 

[DraymondT]

A woman that's your financial equal has better options than you. Not saying it can't happen but from that woman's perspective why shouldn't she date up instead of even?

The many men are dating / married to a woman that brought less to the table than they did.

Sounds like you postin from the 90s or some shyt....

In a Growing Share of U.S. Marriages, Husbands and Wives Earn About the Same

Among married couples in the U.S., women’s financial contributions have grown steadily over the last half century. Even when earnings are similar, husbands spend more time on paid work and leisure, while wives devote more time to caregiving and housework.

www.pewresearch.org

Among married couples in the United States, women’s financial contributions have grown steadily over the last half century. While men remain the main breadwinner in a majority of opposite-sex marriages, the share of women who earn as much as or significantly more than their husband has roughly tripled over the past 50 years.

In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife.

So 45% of US marriages today have wife earnin as much or more than husband.... Gen Z the first generation where women are out earnin men on average.

Young women are out-earning young men in several U.S. cities

The gender wage gap is narrower among younger workers nationally, and the gap varies across geographical areas.

www.pewresearch.org

For women earnin as much or more than me she gon have to be pushin if not in 6 figs and the amount of nikkas earnin that don't grow on trees. And a lot of nikkas in that bracket no offense to em but they usually squares, don't got game, no homo but ain't attractive to females a lot of em so women gon have to settle in some area whether looks or financials specially if she not attractive herself which a lot of broads earnin money like that not these celebs or influencers. They modest lookin and some of em don't want the modest lookin swagless men that earnin more than em if she see him as physically unattractive. Trophy husbands startin to be a thing wit money women gettin these days. Past gens of women weren't gettin money like this so they often had to settle for less attractive wealthier men. Wit pay gap gettin more and more equal, more men unemployed, not goin college etc... some of these women don't mind earnin more if she really want you for other things a nikka bring

 

[Redwood]

I been gave up

Not really too good at this so called "love" shyt. I'm cool with everyone else having their fun, but I'm staying out.

 

[The ADD]

8 years later

 

[ba'al]

No it's good people out there.

 

[winb83]

Sounds like you postin from the 90s or some shyt....

In a Growing Share of U.S. Marriages, Husbands and Wives Earn About the Same

Among married couples in the U.S., women’s financial contributions have grown steadily over the last half century. Even when earnings are similar, husbands spend more time on paid work and leisure, while wives devote more time to caregiving and housework.

www.pewresearch.org

Among married couples in the United States, women’s financial contributions have grown steadily over the last half century. While men remain the main breadwinner in a majority of opposite-sex marriages, the share of women who earn as much as or significantly more than their husband has roughly tripled over the past 50 years.

In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife.

So 45% of US marriages today have wife earnin as much or more than husband.... Gen Z the first generation where women are out earnin men on average.

Young women are out-earning young men in several U.S. cities

The gender wage gap is narrower among younger workers nationally, and the gap varies across geographical areas.

www.pewresearch.org

For women earnin as much or more than me she gon have to be pushin if not in 6 figs and the amount of nikkas earnin that don't grow on trees. And a lot of nikkas in that bracket no offense to em but they usually squares, don't got game, no homo but ain't attractive to females a lot of em so women gon have to settle in some area whether looks or financials specially if she not attractive herself which a lot of broads earnin money like that not these celebs or influencers. They modest lookin and some of em don't want the modest lookin swagless men that earnin more than em if she see him as physically unattractive. Trophy husbands startin to be a thing wit money women gettin these days. Past gens of women weren't gettin money like this so they often had to settle for less attractive wealthier men. Wit pay gap gettin more and more equal, more men unemployed, not goin college etc... some of these women don't mind earnin more if she really want you for other things a nikka bring

You do get that the median household income in the United States is $80K? Hell the average income is $63K. Hope you have patience.

 

[Uchiha God]

 

[Gloxina]

Nah but no longer datin broke bytches no matter how bad

You gotta at least be seein me financially if not richer if I'm puttin up wit all the shyt that comes wit relationships from social to financial.

NGL one of my cousins friends feelin me. She makin that bread gotta be 6 figs easy..... She a 4/10 in the face though. Decent shape..... Got some ass I could work wit. She always wit her natural hair too. A nikka really thinkin to go for it. I'm way out her league looks wise but I might be willin to give it a try and compromise

So you got the same MO as the broke baddies you complaining about (except you aren’t broke).

Attractive women and men can play the same game. Just have to alter your target. Like it seems like you are planning to



I’ve seen this work in a man’s favor. I’m not that girl, but I’m not mad. Chicks choose up on pretty boys every day.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Nah but no longer datin broke bytches no matter how bad

You gotta at least be seein me financially if not richer if I'm puttin up wit all the shyt that comes wit relationships from social to financial.

NGL one of my cousins friends feelin me. She makin that bread gotta be 6 figs easy..... She a 4/10 in the face though. Decent shape..... Got some ass I could work wit. She always wit her natural hair too. A nikka really thinkin to go for it. I'm way out her league looks wise but I might be willin to give it a try and compromise

Just dikk her down good and all you gotta do is protect the house with your presence and fire up the PS5.

 

[DraymondT]

So you got the same MO as the broke baddies you complaining about (except you aren’t broke).

Attractive women and men can play the same game. Just have to alter your target. Like it seems like you are planning to



I’ve seen this work in a man’s favor. I’m not that girl, but I’m not mad. Chicks choose up on pretty boys every day.

I peeped game

Shiieeeet been workin for women for generations. Now they gettin this money too times changin nikkas gotta adapt too. I ain't one of em insecure nikkas who feel some type way if my chick gettin more get yo paper shawty not like I ain't pullin good money myself lol

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Honestly, at this point, i dont care anymore so you can say Im not searching or looking. Im actually VERY pissed off honestly and been so for a LONG time that i dont even talk about. Im tired of seeing and watching everybody fall in love, be in their little relationships, partnerships, marriages and whatever the fukk and NOT ME ESPECIALLY AT 38 just HOPING, being the late fukking bloomer as ive ALWAYS been that i even get a chance. fukk watching all these other people especially these folks with 2, 3, 4 shyts going on and stunting about.
shyt doesnt seem to find me. Dead last, feeling unwanted, either having people that im not interested in or attracted to coming up to me, and fukking bullshyt. Why cant someone that i like or want want or like me back? shyt makes me feel like knocking and whooping peoples heads in for real but i just keep the anger and hostility to myself instead of talking about it. If i cant have fun or experience shyt then i might as well give people my misery or bitterness. I feel like saying fukk all you people who gotta problem with what i said and to suck a dikk too. Sometimes i just feel like approaching random couples and just punching folks in the face or robbing their asses just to get out my frustrations. It is what it is.

Thats funny. @KnickstapeCity told me to tell you to hit his dm. He wanted go tell you himself but he said he too shy. But he likes your aggressive energy

I aint gonna repeat what else he said

 

[Pazzy]

Thats funny. @KnickstapeCity told me to tell you to hit his dm. He wanted go tell you himself but he said he too shy. But he likes your aggressive energy

I aint gonna repeat what else he said

Leave me out your lovers quarreling catfight. i dont need yall making light out of shyt im being dead serious about. Im genuinely pissed and irritated right now to the point where i would knock a motherfukkers head off.