Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[Gloxina]

I peeped game

Shiieeeet been workin for women for generations. Now they gettin this money too times changin nikkas gotta adapt too. I ain't one of em insecure nikkas who feel some type way if my chick gettin more get yo paper shawty not like I ain't pullin good money myself lol

Nah I feel you! Get it lmao


I’m still playing the original game.
I remain humble and thank the Lord for his blessings and will play the game on easy mode while I can lolol

 

[HoldThisL]

I gave up on dating because the shyt just annoys me and I don't like it. How many times do I have to engage in the same conversations over and over again. It reaches a point after a while .
I'm sure if I tried hard enough though I can probably find someone out there for me, but I don't feel like trying, I love my peace

 

[Digital Omen]

My last serious relationship ended in summer 2021, right around the time Saka missed the penalty in the Euro final.
Got on Hinge after the breakup and after being used for meals and ghosted a couple of times I deleted it and never again.
Since then, I've had a couple of FWBs and one GF (all of whom I met face to face), but that only lasted for around 6 months.
One of the FWBs still tries to get it in, but I stopped fukkin with her months ago cuz she's neurotic and a heavy drug user
I'm a weedhead and that's it. This broad is out here popping pills, shrooms, acid, and god knows what else. I'm good.
The other FWB got a man so we stopped. All in the game.
I will say that not dating or running the streets has allowed me to stack stupid paper, pockets on fat
I'm not checked out, but I'm not in the game either. At this point we both have to be head over heels in love for me to even consider it.
All that dating shyt is for the birds. My current outlook is it is what it is.

 

[The ADD]

My last serious relationship ended in summer 2021, right around the time Saka missed the penalty in the Euro final.
Got on Hinge after the breakup and after being used for meals and ghosted a couple of times I deleted it and never again.
Since then, I've had a couple of FWBs and one GF (all of whom I met face to face), but that only lasted for around 6 months.
One of the FWBs still tries to get it in, but I stopped fukkin with her months ago cuz she's neurotic and a heavy drug user
I'm a weedhead and that's it. This broad is out here popping pills, shrooms, acid, and god knows what else. I'm good.
The other FWB got a man so we stopped. All in the game.
I will say that not dating or running the streets has allowed me to stack stupid paper, pockets on fat
I'm not checked out, but I'm not in the game either. At this point we both have to be head over heels in love for me to even consider it.
All that dating shyt is for the birds. My current outlook is it is what it is.

To consider a relationship or marriage?

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

I gave up on dating because the shyt just annoys me and I don't like it. How many times do I have to engage in the same conversations over and over again. It reaches a point after a while .
I'm sure if I tried hard enough though I can probably find someone out there for me, but I don't feel like trying, I love my peace

Sometimes it finds you when you ain't looking for it. Peace is great tho. Having a companion however is very nice too.

 

[Digital Omen]

To consider a relationship or marriage?

Relationship, the real deal. I'm GMB (divorced) but I never say never.

 

[HoldThisL]

Sometimes it finds you when you ain't looking for it. Peace is great tho. Having a companion however is very nice too.

I agree with you, which is why I am planning on doing more hobbies I enjoy outside instead and maybe a women that I like will come along.

 

[BEN23]

INCEL BABBLE

 

[TM101]

A woman that's your financial equal has better options than you. Not saying it can't happen but from that woman's perspective why shouldn't she date up instead of even?

The many men are dating / married to a woman that brought less to the table than they did.

Reminds me of Irami saying that a woman who met his preferences could do better than him so he took what he could get

 

[BaileyPark31]

I'm really concentrated on myself and my immediate family right now. But imma try a lil harder for romance or at least being more social in 2025.

I was reading through my Next door app on NYE..... people were asking if anybody wanted to hang out with them for the new year. Mostly men , but people of all ages.

So many people.nowdays don't really seem to have actual "friends".

Kinda sad.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Pretty much. Trying to get my shıt together. I’ll get back out there this summer

 

[Gloxina]

I was reading through my Next door app on NYE..... people were asking if anybody wanted to hang out with them for the new year. Mostly men , but people of all ages.

So many people.nowdays don't really seem to have actual "friends".

Kinda sad.

1. That’s kinda scary. The next door app still feels way too random. I’d kick it with folks off IG before that LOL

2. Friends— that’s the weird thing! If everyone just…went out…all the ppl trying to find ppl to kick it with online would just meet ppl when they went out.

 

[BaileyPark31]

90% of my Nextdoor is lost cats, complaints about HOAs, and begging people for rides. Lol.

I be praying I never run into none of them.

It's just a source laughs and occasional yard sale.

@Gloxina

 

[winb83]

Reminds me of Irami saying that a woman who met his preferences could do better than him so he took what he could get

I deal with random people all the time at work. Encounter a lot of married couples and most of the men I encounter took what they could get. They have this my wife is my boss and what she says goes happy wife happy like energy.

I could never live like that. I could never be the guy that goes to work and earns an income and anybody other than me gets a say in what I do with my take home pay or I feel like I have to appease them.

If the price of that is to be alone I’ll pay it for the rest of my life.

 

[The ADD]

I deal with random people all the time at work. Encounter a lot of married couples and most of the men I encounter took what they could get. They have this my wife is my boss and what she says goes happy wife happy like energy.

I could never live like that. I could never be the guy that goes to work and earns an income and anybody other than me gets a say in what I do with my take home pay or I feel like I have to appease them.

If the price of that is to be alone I’ll pay it for the rest of my life.

Relationship and marriage is largely what you work (and don’t work) to make them.