Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

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DatLBCGuy562 said:
I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....
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Shyt is indeed terrifying. Most married men these days settled anyway out of fear of being alone.
 
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Im there too, but no kids..thinking of dropping a seed, least I can do at this point.
I would settle down, but the fine women I like wont ever take my shyt, so.:francis:
 
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DatLBCGuy562 said:
Great, introspective post family. Appreciate the input man. Wish I could rep you, but I don't have the ability at the moment. I feel you family. I was 20 years old in 1999. That was before dating sites and social media really existed. It was easy to meet women and really get to know them because their attention wasn't being pulled in a thousand different directions. It's funny because you can pick the bitter bytches out super easy now. You see these two "women", who I now have on ignore, constantly attacking me and trolling me for sharing my experience and asking a simple question? They started going off like I insulted them personally? That's their guilty conscience speaking. That means I struck a nerve. Those are the bitter, argumentative, man hating, single mom chicks I was referring to in my OP. They exposed themselves without even realizing it because they saw themselves in my words. And that's how it is when I date. I pay attention to subtle clues and ques. And when women start talking, I listen closely. And they unknowingly and subtly reveal things about themselves and it throws my vibe and my interest off. I honestly think it's social media man. Everybody feels like a star and like they can do better due to Instagram likes/attention. fukked up the game...
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Plus if a woman(if she's really attractive) don't have serious issues in attracting men. Theres a friend of mine.. She was talking about being single and not being able to find the right person for months.. I told her just look in her inbox and behold, She had like 50 unanswered messages(she ignored of course) from different men from d boys, rappers, athletes, doctors, stock brokers, and even fukking PASTORS... All she had to do was just pick one and she picked a dude that's doing quite well for himself and now they all on FB and IG happy, sharing pictures of one another and been together for months. Now KEEPING THEM is another issue for another topic
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Men on the other hand gotta hit the turf and create those options. They have to create that energy, create the attraction and a lot of nikkas just aren't Resilient enough to keep going with the dissapointments, flakeiness and getting turned down so they just throw in the towel. Ive seen a lot of cats with potential just give up. But the flipside is that theres BILLIONS of females out there.. Sometimes you have to go out of your district or your block radius to pull.
 
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It's always nuts to hear people have a hard time finding each other...There are so many gorgeous, educated, grounded women talking the same shyt. Do you people live in high density black cities? ATL? DC? HOU? Charlotte? etc

I'm going home to leftovers, laughs & legs in the air...Hope you guys figure it out
 
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Don't feel bad man I'm 24 and have no interest in no relationship or dating. I'm just pretty much at the point where the only question I have for these chicks is, is we fukking or not.
 
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thedevilyouknow said:
It's always nuts to hear people have a hard time finding each other...There are so many gorgeous, educated, grounded women talking the same shyt. Do you people live in high density black cities? ATL? DC? HOU? Charlotte? etc

I'm going home to leftovers, laughs & legs in the air...Hope you guys figure it out
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Im from Charlotte and in ATL, both shytty.
 
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