Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Take That L

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This is horrible advice, and all you're going to do is hurt that poor woman. Eventually you will r3sent her for not being what you want physically, no amount of treat you right will be able to stop the resentment. Hell you sound resentful now. Incredibly selfish, so it's understandable why you couldn't make it work with anyone else.

Breh....

fukk outta here with this armchair psychology.

"Happier than I've been in a long time" is now "resentful"?

nikkas...

 

[Lifejennings]

Breh....

fukk outta here with this armchair psychology.

"Happier than I've been in a long time" is now "resentful"?

nikkas...

Check back in a few years. Just the way you talk about her. You're going to wake up one morning see that face, and have an epiphany. Cruel.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Soooo

It's your own fault you wandering round looking lost...

No. It's your daddy's fault that you haven't learned reading comprehension skills

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Honestly man the older you get the more bullshyt you have to potentially deal with unfortunately.

My dad told me to find my wife in college, yeah the girls that age can be immature but at least u get a chance to mold them b4 they end up jaded or single with kids from somebody else. My wife and I met in college and we've been together for almost 12 years now married for about 8 of those years. We have no outside children all of our kids are from us.

Good women still exist man but at ur age your gonna have turn over some stones you may not have thought to look under to find them. Best of luck to u

Real talk breh. Tried to rep you, but they said I'm repping dudes too frequently in here

 

[Poitier]

No. I got this girl I'm digging and I'm determined tho we been bumping heads but anything worth having is worth fighting for. I'll bow out at 35 otherwise.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....

So basically its your fault that you're alone.

You clearly had a woman/women you loved, but you let another mans story dictate your own

Welp............

 

[SoSoSlick]

Many just date wrong. People try to force too much and end up settling for something and/or wasting time just to be in a relationship. More people need to realize that compatibility is everything and nothing else really matters outside of physical attraction. The phrase "opposites attract" is BS imo. The more alike you are the better.

 

[Poitier]

Many just date wrong. People try to force too much and end up settling for something and/or wasting time just to be in a relationship. More people need to realize that compatibility is everything and nothing else really matters outside of physical attraction. The phrase "opposites attract" is BS imo. The more alike you are the better.

this.

Americans date wrong.

We underrate compatability overate superficial/surface traits and it just makes shyt messy especially when you include casual sex culture where folks sell dreams to folks who may want more.

Then we wonder why our marriage rates are so low and out of wedlock babies are sky high lol.

 

[Neuromancer]

Man I swear to god.... I've always put looks first and look at me... 38 and never even been engaged, breh.

Yea, I've had dimes. But I've also had MANY sleepless nights on account of those dimes.

This chick... I mean... her face is beat. it is what it is. But she stays in shape and she treats me like... breh I don't even know. For the first time in a long time there's reciprocity. There's genuine "giving a fukk about what you want" coming from the female side of the relationship. I'm not worried about where she is or what she's doing because she's a quality woman. The main difference is that she wants both of us to be happy instead of her. It's wild...it's wonderful... and I want to take the next step with her.

He gets it.

 

[King Poetic]

For me

Living in los angeles 10 to 20 years ago it was easy to run into women in the street, the grocery store or parks and u was good..

Nowadays the streets, grocery stores, parks are empty and been replaced with instagram, Twitter and blackpeoplemeet, pof , etc now u have all these perfect individuals who never have any flaws online and u think this person is a great match, then u come face to face and have a convo and u like....Damn motherfukker.I wasted time just for this...

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

For me

Living in los angeles 10 to 20 years ago it was easy to run into women in the street, the grocery store or parks and up was good..

Nowadays the streets, grocery stores, parks are empty and been replaced with instagram, Twitter and blackpeoplemeet, prof , etc now u have all these perfect individuals who never have any flaws online and u think this person is a great match, then u come face to face and have a convo and u like....Damn motherfukker.I wasted time just for this...

Yeah man. I'm not trying to be one of those "back in my day" type of dudes, but I've definitely noticed the difference with the advancement of the internet versus when the internet was in it's infancy stages. The game is just all messed up now...

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

So basically its your fault that you're alone.

You clearly had a woman/women you loved, but you let another mans story dictate your own

Welp............

nikka I was young. You live and you learn. I'm sure you think the EXACT way you do now as you did 15 years ago because, you know, no one ever changes or matures for the better

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

I think I have or at least i'm close to..I'm so aloof when it comes to finding "the one" now

 

[Rockstar Mom]

nikka I was young. You live and you learn. I'm sure you think the EXACT way you do now as you did 15 years ago because, you know, no one ever changes or matures for the better

You clearly said you changed your mind because of what ANOTHER man said. My aunt getting divorced dont have shyt to do with me marrying my nikka. But ok