Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[Free White & 21]

Boy go get you a Haitian or African woman

From Haiti or Africa

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....

Soooo

It's your own fault you wandering round looking lost...

 

[TRY GOD]

Im feeling the same way brehs, early 30s. Im focusing on getting money so I can travel and do sex tours yearly

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Why not try dating different type of women, if you dating only black women. Try dating Asian/white/ Latina

I would love to settle down with a black woman but if Im getting more co-operation from a non-black woman, i will wifw quickly

Man I've thought about it but I just couldn't do it.

Not even on some coli militant shyt, just purely physically... If I married a non-black woman, I'd always be lusting after women who looked nothing like my wife.

And neither of us wants that.

Besides, black women aren't really the problem. The generation of simps and women who let that shyt go to their head... that's the problem. I blame social media, tbh.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

I'm in the same place. It's not so bad. No ex-wives no kids looks good on a dating resume. Throw in some money and a "different" vibe and you can eat to your heart's content.

I would like one nice one tho.

OP, my advice.... start dating women that aren't physically attractive.

I know I know, but on the real... I started dating a legit ugly chick last month and tbh I'm happier with her than I have been in a long time.

 

[Princess Coco]

Yuppp. I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend. A dating life is never gonna happen for me

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

nikka you 38. I have reached that conclusion already and im 25. The more bytches I meet each day the more convinced I am these bytches all the same

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Yuppp. I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend. A dating life is never gonna happen for me

U pretty u just don't want a boyfriend I'm sure

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Everthing is transactional
If your market value aint high enough
Biggest thing ive learned is dont try for shyt...i feel at this point even approaching is too much
If you aint that nikka and hoes aint throwing it at you
You are wasting your time
Just focus on something else...get a hobby or a passion

 

[the bossman]

As a flip side to the OP, I'm 20 and still figuring this shyt out, and actually just felt something substantial recently. At my age, most girls I meet are either unstable, have identity issues, suck socially, or aren't very interesting. So I finally met a person who actually cares for your wellbeing, has a magnetic, radiant, and kind personality with great people skills, with an interesting background and a good head and heart, and amazing beauty. That shyt hit me on an emotional level and I didn't appreciate it until she left my life. And she really liked me too, but had to keep her distance cuz she wasn't single. Im probably idealizing her a little too much but that kind of emotional feeling, even if it wasn't fully explored, is still powerful to me. Promiscuity is so uninteresting to me now that I've gotten a glimpse at something greater

breh fukk all that noise and just go out and get your dikk wet

 

[Serious]

You may be on to something breh. My uncle always told me ugly women treat you well. Pretty women are too much high maintenance/headache. Can't see myself with a super ugly woman , but she doesn't have to be prime Beyonce fine. Just don't look like the damn crypt keeper. Smh. At this point, that superficial shyt is mostly secondary. I just want a chill, thoughtful, non argumentative, easy going woman to spend my time with. Doesn't make much to make me happy...

when my dad remarried that's what he did.....DUde has zero problems.....He doesnt even have to work, if he doesnt want to

 

[the bossman]

At least you've had a relationship that has produced you a child. I'm going to be 32 in November and I finally just got hit on


Whatever you do don't give up. Your wife is out there!!!

how much do you weigh and do you go out at all or just straight work, gym, home?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

when my dad remarried that's what he did.....DUde has zero problems.....He doesnt even have to work, if he doesnt want to

I see the opposite...nikkas get bread and spend it on bad younger bytches

I could never be with someone ugly...cuz i dont want ugly kids

But i get it...just get wit a regular broad instead of a bad bytch

 

[King Poetic]

I'm in the same place. It's not so bad. No ex-wives no kids looks good on a dating resume. Throw in some money and a "different" vibe and you can eat to your heart's content.

I would like one nice one tho.

OP, my advice.... start dating women that aren't physically attractive.

I know I know, but on the real... I started dating a legit ugly chick last month and tbh I'm happier with her than I have been in a long time.

Yup... The homely, average to slightly below average looking chicks turn into be winners..

They know more than likely they have to work harder compared to those lazy Instagram hoes

 

[Brandeezy]

I'm ready to throw it in at 28. The majority of these broads are boring, not funny or are concerned about superficial things. Never been in an relationship yet or had a gf but it doesn't really bother me. Got time to do other shyt