Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

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Mac Brown said:
Yup in the same place as op (I'm 39).

I'm not even considering dating or anything ever in life again. I realise that I dont have a "fit" for me. I'm never any womans "type" so I just figure its gods way of saying I suck and shouldn't have been born.:yeshrug:
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Damn breh. Don't look it at it like that. Keep the faith. When you're pushing 40 like we are, it's harder than ever to find a gem in all of these lumps of coal. Smh. All most of these chicks got to offer is attitude, bitterness, lies, and another nikkaz kids. There are rare gems out there and there's someone for everyone. I truly believe that.
 
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Mac Brown said:
'm never any womans "type"
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In my experience I've notice most women don't know what they want. It changes as the wind blows and you basically have to keep up. A lot of times what they want is what the next bytch want or something they can't have but feel they deserve or even whatever they see on tv.


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so I just figure its gods way of saying I suck and shouldn't have been born.:yeshrug:
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Nah man it ain't that deep. If you ever feel like getting back on the playing field go ahead.

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Mac Brown said:
Yup in the same place as op (I'm 39).

I'm not even considering dating or anything ever in life again. I realise that I dont have a "fit" for me. I'm never any womans "type" so I just figure its gods way of saying I suck and shouldn't have been born.:yeshrug:
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U still young breh 39 year old get married everyday breh
 
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I'm 36 with no kids and I've never been married. Hell, I can't even remember my last relationship.

In the same boat as you. I'm getting too old and tired of the bullshyt when it comes to dating. I rather build my career at this point and chill at my condo .

Where I live at the dating pool is horrible already if you looking to date women under 30, let alone older. Great place to raise a family but the dating scene is :trash:

Sucks because I do want to have kids but with someone that wants to be with me and not belonging to someone else.
 
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momma said:
As a flip side to the OP, I'm 20 and still figuring this shyt out, and actually just felt something substantial recently. At my age, most girls I meet are either unstable, have identity issues, suck socially, or aren't very interesting. So I finally met a person who actually cares for your wellbeing, has a magnetic, radiant, and kind personality with great people skills, with an interesting background and a good head and heart, and great natural beauty. That shyt hit me on an emotional level and I didn't appreciate it until she left my life. And she really liked me too, but had to keep her distance cuz she wasn't single. Im probably idealizing her a little too much but that kind of emotional feeling, even if it wasn't fully explored, is still powerful to me
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Is there any chance of rekindling that relationship breh? Sometimes a woman is just done. I've been there. We all have. But, on rare occasions, they just wanna be babied and buttered up and you can get them back in the right circumstance. But you're young breh. Your 20s are for growth and having fun and discovering who you are. I had so many women in my 20s, I'm literally embarrassed to repeat the number. As you start to get older, you value companionship more and not just the flesh, at least I do....
 
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At least you've had a relationship that has produced you a child. I'm going to be 32 in November and I finally just got hit on.....but it was by the most hideous man I have ever seen in my life :scust:


I quickly walked away after trying to be nice :francis:

N*gga was so ugly he made C-Murder look like Idris Elba:picard:


First thing that came to mind was the dude with the f*cked up grill at 0:32 but ten times worse :picard:








Whatever you do don't give up. Your wife is out there!!! :ufdup:
 
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