I appreciate your input... You can actually hold a conversation without it turning into a pissing match unlike most people on here...Salute king
Happily Married Men of The Coli: Why Did You Get Married?
This makes sense.
.....hate to break it to you...no man is happily married.... Reason being you have no time to enjoy the happiness.... Marriage is work...a whole lot of work... You can't just dip back to your crib when y'all have disagreements...you have to go home..... In marriage your love and bond is going to be continuously tested...you can't enjoy the fruits of your labor if you know a battle is always on the horizon..you can never get comfortable because of the amount of responsibility you have...bills, children, making time for each other...not to mention the randomness life loves to throw at you...sometimes one partner is stronger than other for a particular period of time...sometimes your woman might have to lead when your weak...then there will be times you carrying the load 100%….She might not feel like having sex not because she cheating , because she's drained, she work like you work....most dudes aren't mature enough to actually look at a woman like a person....if you been yelling bytches ain't shyt since you a teenager your gonna take mentality into your marriage...its ingrained in you....with all that being said the bond you have with your wife will only be strong after its been tested time and time again....look at it like a car...they don't just put a car on the road when they make the prototype... They run it thru a gauntlet of test for durability, safety etc....marriage is no different..
There are happily married men and some of them have posted in this thread. Just because you're married and not happy doesn't mean that all men are.
Honestly, I married my wife because I feel good and comfortable with her. We met at college and she became pregnant, so we got married, I thought I could benefit from her life cause i was broke and she was comfortable financially. When it comes down to specifics I have no f* idea why I married my wife, she wanted to marry me, and i was attracted to her, p*ssy was good, i was comfortable, and she give me no headache, so why not
Are you still broke? Have you ever cheated? How long have you been married?
You probably should have gotten with someone your age or younger.
You have never been married nor do you know what it takes be in a successful marriage... It's my opinion on marriage I know...right now you all bright eyed about the fantasy you have in your head about marriage when the reality is far from your fairytale.... I married who was right for me...2 years isn't a big deal...we were in high school during the same time.....you acting like she my sugar momma..... That man found happiness after being tested....you glossing over the entire premis of my post...happiness is a fleeting emotion....I am speaking for myself only...not trying to force my opinion on anyone..... Me personally....I feel that happiness has to be enjoyed... I can't enjoy it if I'm in a constant state of flux..... I can only enjoy it after its all said and done....I look at it like an NBA championship... Yea all those wins during the season are cool...but I won't be satisfied until I bring home a ring and can have a parade....thats when I can be happy and enjoy all the hard work and sacrifice and know that it was worth it....
Gimini00
Bytch Off The Bando
No i'm good now, graduate in software engineering and have a good salary, my broken years pay off. I never cheat on her and i'm not interested to do so. We have been married since July 2014.
Magic 8 Ball
Right on Cue
#GMB
#HOH
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Missouri Marriage Age Requirements Laws - FindLaw
minimum is 15 so yeah your wrong, and i posted in here to let people know marriage isn't as sweet as its portrayed even when the couple seems happy (i also may be low-key jealous).
666 ReVeNGe 666
TROLL IS LIFE
Will be married next year. At 28.
Don't want no other girls, barely even notice these hoes.
I can trust my girl 100%, we are best friends, she makes me laugh, I make her laugh, I can't see myself with anyone else that accepts me for me like she does.
We have arguments and periods where I question things, but I just know I would rather go through this all with her.
We actually are home together today. We called out together
Don't want no other girls, barely even notice these hoes.
I can trust my girl 100%, we are best friends, she makes me laugh, I make her laugh, I can't see myself with anyone else that accepts me for me like she does.
We have arguments and periods where I question things, but I just know I would rather go through this all with her.
We actually are home together today. We called out together
Verbal Kint
Superstar
knocked my BM up at 19 in college. Broke up with her, tried to keep it moving. Realized she's a good woman, good mom, intelligent, bout her biz, not about dumb games, not a hoe, etc. Plus I didn't want my son being raised by no other man so I made that move to get back with her a few years later. Been married 6 years, got one more son and twins on the way. Best choice I ever made.
Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
My lady is someone I can build with enjoys and celebrates me for who I am. She does what it takes to make it work. She's the kinda of person that I want to be with long term.
I'm a one woman man. I tried the casual thing juggling beezys and it was fun for a time but I wasn't happy.
Me and my lady were friends for 4 years before we started dating. I knew everything about her already so there were no suprises.
Let's be real though.this marriage sh*t is real work and most people ain't built for it. Most people aren't willing to put someone else's needs ahead of there own and do what it takes to make a family grow. They see a romaticized version of marriage and think that's normal and it's not.
I'm a one woman man. I tried the casual thing juggling beezys and it was fun for a time but I wasn't happy.
Me and my lady were friends for 4 years before we started dating. I knew everything about her already so there were no suprises.
Let's be real though.this marriage sh*t is real work and most people ain't built for it. Most people aren't willing to put someone else's needs ahead of there own and do what it takes to make a family grow. They see a romaticized version of marriage and think that's normal and it's not.
3rd Koast Kang
Superstar
Been married since May. I proposed Memorial Day of 14' we had been together a little bit over 2 years before I proposed. Never had an issue about her being wife/future mother material my hold up was trying to get my funds where I wanted them but then realized I wasn't doing too bad so....
Had a big blow about a month after our wedding when my mom passed. It was and still is tough to deal with. But she's held me down through it all which shows me I made the right decision. I can't see myself without her. We're expecting our first child in January.
Had a big blow about a month after our wedding when my mom passed. It was and still is tough to deal with. But she's held me down through it all which shows me I made the right decision. I can't see myself without her. We're expecting our first child in January.