Happily Married Men of The Coli: Why Did You Get Married?

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Well I've been around her most of my life. Sometimes I would neglect her and act like she wasnt important. But truth be told... my happiest days have been when she's one of the main focal points of my life. A lot of people, friends, etc use to look at me crazy for putting her on such a pedestal. But I know what works for me. I know that I have a new sense of confidence, I'm more of a risk taker, I'm passionate, I'm optimistic, etc. I know that a lot of hate comes with this type of relationship. There is jealousy, hatred, betrayal, etc. But that happens with anything, so why not just be happy?

I'm happily married. :mjcry:

























It feels so good to be in love with the money :ahh::troll:

Thread didn't get the support that you hoped it would, huh:sas1:?


Maybe you should take "happily" out of the title:sas2:






#GMB:youngsabo:



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Why did you get married?

How do you feel about the excuses that single males over 30 on here are using to say why they aren't married?
Some are understandable but lots of them sound ridiculous to me.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/single-men-over-30-why-arent-you-married.364685/

Were you rich when before you got married? Did you enjoy life less after you got married? Did you marry because you were lonely or because you didn't want to be lonely? Were you unfulfiled with your single life?

How do you feel about #GMB

How old were you when you got married & what made you choose the woman you chose?


Tell us please :queen:
Been with my wife since 12th grade...had our first kid at 19:damn:...didn't get married til 13 years later...just felt like it was finally time:yeshrug:
 

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i'm not gonna let you try to downplay the things that have happened in my life, especially when they gave me my beloved daughter. Maybe you losing your voice was for the best, cuz someone who wld attack another's integrity and honesty surely sounds demonic.
 

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i'm not gonna let you try to downplay the things that have happened in my life, especially when they gave me my beloved daughter. Maybe you losing your voice was for the best, cuz someone who wld attack another's integrity and honesty surely sounds demonic.

How did you get married at 17, when you have to be 18 and older to get married?

& If you aren't happily married, then this was not the right thread to post that story in anyway.
 

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Why did you get married?

How do you feel about the excuses that single males over 30 on here are using to say why they aren't married?
Some are understandable but lots of them sound ridiculous to me.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/single-men-over-30-why-arent-you-married.364685/

Were you rich when before you got married? Did you enjoy life less after you got married? Did you marry because you were lonely or because you didn't want to be lonely? Were you unfulfiled with your single life?

How do you feel about #GMB

How old were you when you got married & what made you choose the woman you chose?


Tell us please :queen:
Most of the relationship advice that gets thrown around here comes from people who have been unable to foster positive relationships in real life. It's all basically excuses and justifications for their own failures.

Hell the leader of #gmb is a dude that was cheated on, got his babies aborted, then got thrown in the bushes, now he's making posts from his moms basement talking about how shytty women and relationships are :mjlol:

No I wasn't rich before i got married. I had already started a fairly successful career though.

No, I enjoy it about the same. There are some sacrifices, but also some benefits. I can say life is more fulfilling when you have a family to share your success/failures with.

I married because I love her, and I felt we could build a better life together than we could have alone.

Nah, single life was good. I enjoyed that phase of my life. It was just time to grow up.

#GMB is the male version of "I'm strong, I don't need a man"

I was 22 and I chose her cause we had seen a lot together and it was time to make it official.
 

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Why did you get married?

How do you feel about the excuses that single males over 30 on here are using to say why they aren't married?
Some are understandable but lots of them sound ridiculous to me.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/single-men-over-30-why-arent-you-married.364685/

Were you rich when before you got married? Did you enjoy life less after you got married? Did you marry because you were lonely or because you didn't want to be lonely? Were you unfulfiled with your single life?

How do you feel about #GMB

How old were you when you got married & what made you choose the woman you chose?


Tell us please :queen:


A woman's life is love.......A man's love is life .

Men can't articulate this until they are late 20s early 30s
Women don't accept that once they reach their 30's

Find a intelligent woman 5 years younger than you who comes from a decent family.
 

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:jbhmm:.....hate to break it to you...no man is happily married.... Reason being you have no time to enjoy the happiness.... Marriage is work...a whole lot of work... You can't just dip back to your crib when y'all have disagreements...you have to go home..... In marriage your love and bond is going to be continuously tested...you can't enjoy the fruits of your labor if you know a battle is always on the horizon..you can never get comfortable because of the amount of responsibility you have...bills, children, making time for each other...not to mention the randomness life loves to throw at you...sometimes one partner is stronger than other for a particular period of time...sometimes your woman might have to lead when your weak...then there will be times you carrying the load 100%….She might not feel like having sex not because she cheating , because she's drained, she work like you work....most dudes aren't mature enough to actually look at a woman like a person....if you been yelling bytches ain't shyt since you a teenager your gonna take mentality into your marriage...its ingrained in you....with all that being said the bond you have with your wife will only be strong after its been tested time and time again....look at it like a car...they don't just put a car on the road when they make the prototype... They run it thru a gauntlet of test for durability, safety etc....marriage is no different..
 
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