Exactly my thoughts on the topic.I just got back after a four year hiatus. Back then I used to get a bunch of hits. Seems every black woman was swiping right.
This time around it's mad slow.
If I wasn't' doing well in real life I would be hurt.
So I did a little research cause i'm not a bad looking guy. But I ain't no pretty boy who has women taking off the drawz as soon as they see me type either.
So here is the thing to keep in mind and what I wish I knew before I signed up for that Tinder gold bullshyt .
1) The ration of men to women on Tinder is 78% - 21% in 2019. Back a few years ago, it was like 60-40.
With these kinds of odds even average and below average women are getting hit up like crazy. This means they can afford to be choosy. I had a fat girl cop an attitude with me just this week over a harmless joke.
Leading me to a study I found.
2) A study determined that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men.
So the 20% of men that women consider very attractive or who are very photogenic are getting all the love, leaving 80% of men fighting for scraps.
Better to take the game back to real life.
And that's not even to say that you can't find some chicks on there but it's a crapshoot overall trying to stand out from other dudes when these chicks are bombarded with messages.
Might as well approach in real life