Got fired from my job for being drunk on the clock

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I got a great idea....do you want to hear it?







You ready?





Okay...


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:stopitslime:
Easier said than done
 

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I'm just glad OP is alive. Breh was MIA for a good minute.

@Hathaway I'll never understand everything that's going on, your background or family history, etc but I wanna think you're emphasizing the wrong things. Meditation helped me during my dark time in life (over a decade and a half ago) sometimes you actually gotta STOP thinking so much to think clearly
 

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You need to get over yourself, @Hathaway

Maybe life didn't hand you the cards you think you deserve, but by your own accounts, it sounds like you were instead blessed with a wonderful wife and family which a lot of people on this board would probably kill for, especially during these trying times. Tighten up and they'll afford you a peace that that fame you think you want so badly never would have.
 
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You said alcohol helps you, but you're losing everything.


Thats what he wants actually,I remember him resenting his family for stalling his dreams. So now he wants to drink so that his wife leaves him,because he doesnt have the heart to do it himself. This could sound harsh but Im just spelling out the facts of the matter.


Time to realize your time is up and your probably not going to be some rnb sensation. This is where you stop pitying yourself,and consider being more like a Joe Jackson figure and instilling your talents into your kids. Perhaps tapping into their creativity and helping them create. Right now your being very selfish and crashing out because your dreams are finished. Pick your head up and start thinking like a God,when one mission ends you find another. When theres a void,you find something to fill it. For me I got deep into the knowledge,and although im miserable in Babylon everyday, I control my thoughts,therefore controlling my feelings. Im focused on the end goal only:respect:
 

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Alchohol helps me feel nothing.
I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions.
Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me.
I got a family to support.
Alcohol does not help you "control your emotions," it is controlling you.
You are alcohol dependent and in the early stage of alcoholism.
You need to put the bottle down and get some counseling.
If you don't want to be with your wife let her leave.
You can't predict your emotions because you're having a mental health crisis.
You went to work drunk because you are not managing your impulses.
You wanted to sabotage yourself because you think that's the way out of your marriage.
You are not being fair to yourself.
 

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.
I hope you get it together OP, but the bolded :dead:
 

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i had a co-worker who would drink and smoke on the job years ago. last time I saw him he had injured himself at work and lost a compensation case because he was... drunk and not wearing his equipment. Lost his job, family... ended up working night shift at walmart renting a basement with 2 dudes. then renting an electric bike to deliver uber eats.

the moral of the story is put the fukking bottle down. like someone else said. get over yourself.
 

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Easier said than done
I drank vodka like a whale from 2007 to December 31, 2014, and officially stopped cold turkey on January 1, 2015. Easier said than done, yes, but it's not impossible. Everyone is different, you just need to find a way. There are dozens of outlets that can be helpful.
 

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.
Damn
 

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.
If your employer had to drive you home you was fukked up my guy. You should have called out.
 
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