Got fired from my job for being drunk on the clock

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.
Hope you can get back on your feet breh. DM if you wanna chat or need anything offline.
 

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If you're not in a group trying to get over that alcohol issue by the end of the week, you will lose everything.

Everybody fukks up every once in a while, what you do after it is what sets you apart.

If you show a willingness to get over it, your family will rally around you. Don't give up.
 

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.
You need to go to AA and speak with a mental health professional
 

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alcohol is poison, it's not helping u its destroying u and ur family
seek help for ur wife and kids

@Hathaway this brother @RadaMillz is my football opp.

But his message is right and I stand with him.

If I can add anything I would’ve also say try to seek guidance in some type of spiritual form.

I definitely try to attend Church every weekend and definitely always gets some type of word or message that help keep me strong in trying times and humble/focused in good times.

We pulling for you brother
 

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we're both slaves to our drug of choice, there's no cure, just accept it :yeshrug:
I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go.
here's some suggestions for your next job so you don't get fired and put your family in the homeless shelter... mix vodka with smth cold and aromatic, i like cranberry juice. drink it normally, ppl drink alcohol in a more apprehensive way than they drink smth refreshing. don't overindulge by tryna get to an enjoyable level of drunkenness, pace yourself just enough to keep the shakes and bad thoughts away. no caffeine or uppers. a strong antiperspirant to keep the booze sweats down. altoids and gum and keep it consistent, nothing tells the boss "this guy's partying" like someone who never eats mints but downs them like an addict on some days. fruit snacks are another option so you can explain why your breath smells like cranberries all the time. learn breathing control so you don't mouth breathe, and make sure you stay downwind from ppl. if someone can't hear you back up and shout instead of coming closer. don't be your normal friendly self so you don't have to speak as much, pretend you're at a library or funeral or w/e. lower your productivity levels when you're sober so you seem to have a normal work output when you're wasted. good luck, i'm drunk 24/7 and i've never been caught, even during traffic stops.

edit: you worked in a KITCHEN? how does anyone back of house get fired for being under the influence of anything, how sloppy were you breh? :why:
 
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How many kids?

How old are you?

What was your salary from this job?

You need to get help tapering from alcohol
 

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you said that worked in a kitchen before right? it's not the end of the world, i'm certain you'll be able to find another job.

there are other ways to control your emotions without drinking, medications if need be, seek the proper help. if not for yourself do it for your kids breh.
 
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