If you could see every time a woman seen your text you'd be astounded at how long it took them to reply to it. If she seen your text 2 minutes after you sent it there's no justifying taking over 3 hours to reply to it. If that was Trey Songz or The Rock texting her she would've responded rapidly. I demand to get the high value treatment at this point in my life.
At one point I would've accepted the bullshyt but I consider myself the prize at this point in my life.
I understand your point. But, I also understand that everyone is different. Some people aren't phone or text people, so returning phone calls or texts right away isn't a priority for them and it isn't personal.
I had to understand this phenomenon, trust me. I do understand where you are coming from.
Let me give you an example..
I work nights. Most women I have talked to work days. So, let's say I called or texted a woman while she is at work. She may have heard my voicemail message or read my text while at work, but may not have the time to call or text back because of work. She may have even heard my message or read my text during her meal hour or coffee break, but may prefer to respond back once she gets off of work. Well, by the time she gets off of work, I am heading to work or is at work and I may not be able to respond to her response until my meal hour. By the time I go to lunch, most people are asleep.
So, we could go a whole day not talking, but it was due to conflicting work schedules. I will not trip off of that. However, I do expect a response of some sort within a reasonable amount of time.
I would not accept someone waiting a week to get back at me. I don't think anyone is that busy to not return a text or call. But, I don't think is is fair to expect someone to immediately respond to me when they may not be able to do so at that moment.
Trust me breh, I been though this shyt with so many different type of women over the course of years, it is ridiculous! If I had it my way, all calls and text would be reciprocated promptly, but I have no control over how others respond to calls or texts.
Lastly, how I roll is like this..
If I call a woman and leave a message, then I do expect a phone call back, not text. I am not gonna call a woman back to back and she doesn't return my call. Some women don't want to call men period and for me, that is a deal breaker.
In addition, many women I have came into contact with have kids, so I have to take into consideration that she may be busy with her kids which can be a handful and may only be available to talk during down time.
I know the game. I know that a woman who is truly interested in a man will promptly return calls and text and will go as far as saying that they will initiate calls and texts on their end. But, some to many play those games, so I learned to adjust myself to deal with that. I have to not get bent out of shape if a woman doesn't return my text or call right away because I can't contol how a person responds to me. I can only control how I respond to that person. If I sense that a woman isn't interested, then I will delete her contact info and place her on the benign neglect program for life!
Then move on to the next one..
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