Girlfriend wants to live around Blacks, I want to live around Whites..What to do?

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Thank you.

The good Blacks have it hard because of the animals.
Exactly, in my perfect world, there would be a place for affluent blacks to live in all black areas like affluent jews/whites/hispanics/asians have the ability to but sadly this isnt the case for us. For the most part, if you wanna raise your family in a safe affluent area with good school districts, you're going to have to put up with cacs and asians.

Oh and for the record, I live in a predominantly black suburb and a lot of the people here act the same in the burbs as they would in the city. As I'm typing this, I'm listening to some jackasses throwing a loud ass party down the street and blasting rap music so loud that its engulfing the entire neighborhood. I dont even feel like getting into all the fukkery that I've experienced here over the years. So many of our people just dont know how to act, cold hard truth.
 

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My girl from the hood (but doesnt act hood) but doesnt believe its so bad

Im from a good mixed street with respectful neighbors

Where would you move to raise a kid?

Currently, we live on a decent street in the hood with annoying lil black bebe kids wanding around bored doin little mischiveous (sp) shyt to our property like hoppin her fence breaking one of our porch items in the process and we fed up with it

(cant wait till school starts) :snoop:

where you at now?
 

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Dont you have some malt liquor you should be drinkin right now?

I'm the furthest from any black stereotypes you got circulating in your mind. I'm just calling it how I see it . Black people like you who use racist words against allegedly your own people are an embarrassment. Get your mind checked out.
 

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Black neighbourhood. Don't want your kids having identity issues as a teen and beyond.
this the kind of shyt that makes me :what:

Strong parenting and a strong support system trumps this bullshyt every time. "Path of least resistance" mentality is what is making todays youth into such weirdos
 

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I'm the furthest from any black stereotypes you got circulating in your mind. I'm just calling it how I see it . Black people like you who use racist words against allegedly your own people are an embarrassment. Get your mind checked out.
U some type of pyschiatrist?

You sure THINK you know what you're talkin' about.
 

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this the kind of shyt that makes me :what:

Strong parenting and a strong support system trumps this bullshyt every time. "Path of least resistance" mentality is what is making todays youth into such weirdos
Path of least resistance is moving your kid to a white neighbourhood because you're afraid to the influence of "lesser blacks" (which is inherently a self-hating idea anyways).

I'd much rather raise my kid around blacks than whites because you can always teach a kid good manners, respect, discipline, and good decision making, but you can't reconstruct a kid's identity if you place them in an environment in which they will be confused trying to figure out where they "fit" in a neighbourhood that doesn't want or, most importantly, understand them.
 

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Smh at nikkas calling other black people c00ns for pointing out the fact that the OP stated the black area his girl wants to live is ratchet.

It look like u spooks are the ones ignorant wanting to keep it real in a high crime area and probably the same people off the net saying the same shyt me @Buckeye Fever and @KobeTho is talking about
 

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Smh at nikkas calling other black people c00ns for pointing out the fact that the OP stated the black area his girl wants to live is ratchet.

It look like u spooks are the ones ignorant wanting to keep it real in a high crime area and probably the same people off the net saying the same shyt me @Buckeye Fever and @KobeTho is talking about
You know how these militants are, breh. They think we supposed to give Blacks a pass for ignorance
 

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How you gonna ROFL with a hollow back?
Path of least resistance is moving your kid to a white neighbourhood because you're afraid to the influence of "lesser blacks" (which is inherently a self-hating idea anyways).

I'd much rather raise my kid around blacks than whites because you can always teach a kid good manners, respect, discipline, and good decision making, but you can't reconstruct a kid's identity if you place them in an environment in which they will be confused trying to figure out where they "fit" in a neighbourhood that doesn't want or, most importantly, understand them.
Im talking about for the kids, the OP should make the decision based on what he wants to do. There is uncertainty in either decision. If he feels that the current neighborhood or environment is not conducive to his child's well being, than go where you feel it is for the kid. Everything else is on the kid, and if your influence is strong on the kid, than there is no identity crisis. You act as though there could not be an identity crisis in the current situation, a bunch of bad ass little fukks with no obvious guidance and respect, you think kids aren't influenced by that shyt? The child could act out just because the kid down the street is acting out, and that's how he thinks he is supposed to act. Nowadays, raising a 14 year old daughter, you think its easy? Fukk no, you do what you feel is best.
 

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You know how these militants are, breh. They think we supposed to give Blacks a pass for ignorance

A lot of them have never lived around it so they don't understand.
It can be pure hell living in an area with ratchet blacks. Like dude said you can't even talk to the parents because they stupid as fukk.
 

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Smh at nikkas calling other black people c00ns for pointing out the fact that the OP stated the black area his girl wants to live is ratchet.

It look like u spooks are the ones ignorant wanting to keep it real in a high crime area and probably the same people off the net saying the same shyt me @Buckeye Fever and @KobeTho is talking about
So we gonna act like op wasn't talking like there are no good black neighborhoods?

Good black people need to unite in areas where good black people live not run to fully white areas.
 
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