Girlfriend wants to live around Blacks, I want to live around Whites..What to do?

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What area are you from? @Dog Based Gremlin

I'm with Dog Based, once you have kids it's an entirely different ballgame, I'm lucky to be from Jersey in the sense that there are some affluent and diverse cities in my area. I currently live in Maplewood (not far from where Lauryn Hill went to school) which is a high income area, but is still very diverse. I chose their because its within 10 mins of my old neighbor hood where I have family there still but it's isolated enough where the fukkery doesn't hit my doorstep. But if I had to choose between a white neighborhood and the hood the choice is a no brainer and just because one's kids are surrounded by white people doesn't mean that the kids are going to want to be white, thats more about how you raise them if you teach them knowledge of self, just like I was taught.
:salute: this might be one of the most divided threads ive seen on here

everyone put in some good input whether they agreed or disagreed
 

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Every since the Coli shut down for a bit the other day, and came back with the new front page, topics have been poppin' like never before. It just feels like niccas are trollin' to get that pub. They shoulda never given niccas a new front page. Shyt is getting outta hand.

But yeah, live where ever you want to homeboy. I prefer diverse communities. But to each his own.
 

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What area are you from? @Dog Based Gremlin

I'm with Dog Based, once you have kids it's an entirely different ballgame, I'm lucky to be from Jersey in the sense that there are some affluent and diverse cities in my area. I currently live in Maplewood (not far from where Lauryn Hill went to school) which is a high income area, but is still very diverse. I chose their because its within 10 mins of my old neighbor hood where I have family there still but it's isolated enough where the fukkery doesn't hit my doorstep. But if I had to choose between a white neighborhood and the hood the choice is a no brainer and just because one's kids are surrounded by white people doesn't mean that the kids are going to want to be white, thats more about how you raise them if you teach them knowledge of self, just like I was taught.

yeah right your kid going to be around cacs all day and not want ot be like them?:

i already made a thread before how my niece started kindergarten, the only black in her whole school and she came saying why isn't she white and how come she doesnt have long hair

let these devils surround your kids brehs and brehettes
 

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yeah right your kid going to be around cacs all day and not want ot be like them?:

i already made a thread before how my niece started kindergarten, the only black in her whole school and she came saying why isn't she white and how come she doesnt have long hair

let these devils surround your kids brehs and brehettes

Absolutely not, I teach my kids all about Black pride and I raise them in a strong black household, of course my youngest may have had some questions but nothing to that extent. Kindergarteners ask all sorts of existential questions like that, but that doesn't mean that she wants to be white. And to keep 100% i would prefer those type of things then having kindergartners in a ratchet neighborhood singing songs about birthday sex and telling stories about why mommy has a new daddy every month (not making this up either wife is a teacher)
 
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Absolutely not, I teach my kids all about Black pride and I raise them in a strong black household, of course my youngest may have had some questions but nothing to that extent. Kindergarteners ask all sorts of existential questions like that, but that doesn't mean that she wants to be white. And to keep 100% i would prefer those type of things then having kindergartners in a ratchet neighborhood singing songs about birthday sex and telling stories about why mommy has a new daddy every month (not making this up either wife is a teacher)
agreed, rather her say some corny shyt "why dont i have blonde hair daddy?" than to see her trying to twerk or singing Migos lyrics
 
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