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I had to go back and dap/rep and laugh at all the comments
Two perpetually lonely dudes who love getting pissed on and women aborting their children were in here giving relationship advice....
I mean, if these are the people agreeing with your actions; you really should reevaluate your decisions in life
Lord this was classic
Two perpetually lonely dudes who love getting pissed on and women aborting their children were in here giving relationship advice....
I mean, if these are the people agreeing with your actions; you really should reevaluate your decisions in life
Lord this was classic
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Get over yourself.
As I told you before. Me and her weren't for each other. No man should EVER tolerate a certain level of disrespect from ANY woman and she crossed the line.
You can disagree all you want with my career decision the fact of the matter is that I did exactly what I said I was going to do and made it work, and I am happy.
Make no mistake fellow black men of the Coli. This is NOT a #HOH thread nor is it a #GMB story. I eventually want to have children and therefore I will one day get married again because raising children in a two parent household, in my opinion, is always the best way. And I wish my ex no ill will whatsoever.
But I live by a standard of certain relationship principles. And after attempting to do everything I could to accomadate this woman for almost 10 years of knowing her and two and a half years of marriage, for her to look me in my face and dismissively tell me that I was going to be 38 years old making $12.50 and that she was an A1 chick....that's it. The line has been crossed and there is no going back. That was NOT a woman who was prepared to support me through sickness, health, good and bad. That's the type of talk that women give while taking you for half, while holding your children hostage from you, while talking shyt behind your back and starting an affair with their "work husbands" with the rationalization that they can do "better". This is the type of woman who many men allow to turn them angry and bitter against women.
I will not be anyone's fool. No woman, who is supposed to proudly call herself my wife will EVER look down on me or make blanket statements about me being a failure. She will simply be given bushes status
Please follow your own advice.... Pride comes before a fall
You have made it clear that you two weren't for each other...
It's not about your career choices
It's really not about your ex-wife's "disrespect"
Those are both visible symptoms
Please take some time and reflect on yourself ....
InDePickWest
Im Not American
No, and that was the stupidest thing I ever did
Reginald Noble
Banned
You got it breh, a Woman who is truly quality will never bash you like that. What is the point of bashing a Man you are supposedly in love with and have devoted 10 years of your life to???? Women are irrational a lot of times but shyt on that level cannot fly and you did what had to be done.
nikka what you mean???? His Woman wasn't down with the program and her cut her off as is supposed to happen...
Am I missing something here are you jealous he was able to be decisive???
nikka what you mean???? His Woman wasn't down with the program and her cut her off as is supposed to happen...
Am I missing something here are you jealous he was able to be decisive???
Yes, I am so jealous... His wife should have immediately accepted that her husband was going to take an hourly job with limited stability, income, and benefits. She should have never had the audacity to question why he wanted to start from the bottom of the career ladder even though he had already made steady gains...
I am so envious of his ability to quit and run away from a commitment such as marriage over 1 question. Oh yeah, he has the big balls
Reginald Noble
Banned
He has to think of himself first. If he wants to change careers or whatever she is either down or she isn't.
For better or worse, richer for poorer etc. Women can never seem to realize that part of the vow. #GMB...
She didnt divorce him she questionned his decision.
And how do you know how she did it? Were you there?
Queen
CEO of #GPB
So what. Marriage should be taken a lot more seriously than that.
As you go through life your spouse will do things in a lot of "ways" that may not be your cup of tea at that point in time. You grow up, address your concerns, and stick by that lifetime commitment you made.
If someone can't handle a woman being scared and asking a question about the future of your resources, then how will he handle much tougher issues that life throws at you?
How will you handle if she gets pregnant and her entire personality changes due to the stress, hormones, and discomfort?
How will you handle if you have a sick child and her patience just isn't there?
What if she gets postpartum depression?
How will you handle financial issues if talking about them upsets your manhood to the point where you can't think logically?
The you is hypothetical because this isn't about you. But I would advise women to be careful and avoid men with childish mentalities because it's not safe to trust them with the direction of your life.
This is a classic #GPB thread. Get some priorities before entering marriage.
MalikReloaded
All Star
He made the right decision 
If she was at her lowest, and he ridiculed her like that, he'd be an azzhole right? He's supposed to stick with her through her most horrible days and be her rock and support system but, when its her turn, she mocks him. I can easily see how that can make you fall out of love with someone.
If she was at her lowest, and he ridiculed her like that, he'd be an azzhole right? He's supposed to stick with her through her most horrible days and be her rock and support system but, when its her turn, she mocks him. I can easily see how that can make you fall out of love with someone.
The back and forth and stark split down the middle from posters with varying opinions.This whole thread
This thread was a good one.