Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[knickscrusaderm]

Shout out to op.

No man with the goat as his avi can lose

 

[ejthompson23]

Lol...so she's an up and coming junior lawyer...op, think , once she starts getting paid as a senior lawyer, you could be living comfortably. And the divorce laws will suit you as you'll be making less than her. Sounds like you have a fragile ego and you were really intimidated by her potential to make the big bucks but you just used her remarks as cop out. Op is intimidated by his overachieving wife.

You a hoe ass nikka...telling him to bytch up and use "divorce laws"...who raised y'all nikkas...that nikka chose his happiness over her money and p*ssy...that's a REAL nikka in my book...You more than likely don't have the balls to do what he did...You aint happy with a bytch, leave her...he coulda smiled in her face while fukking other hoes behind her back..but he chose the honorable thing, and for that we should dap him up...

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Plot twist. Great thread still. Congrats on the happiness OP.

 

[ejthompson23]

I agree with OP's decision.

It's great that he is letting her go while she is still in her 20s and (presumably) childless. It just sucks that she wasted so many years on him. Hopefully she will see the bright side and be able to move on.

Good luck and success to you too OP.

You lack self respect...that's a weak trait...

 

[ejthompson23]

Brother...you're a fukking moron. You seem like the type of "man" to tally and keep track of what you do for your woman and other people. Do you keep a spreadsheet of everything you've done for her over the years? You don't deserve any special accolades for doing what a man is supposed to do for the person that he is building with. It's called building for a reason nikka.

I put my wife through school when I was 22 years old and didn't have a pot to piss in because she's who I wanted to build a life with. When you love someone and value them shyt like that just comes with the territory. I didn't get a cookie or a pat on the back for doing that and neither should you. I didn't hold none of that shyt over her head and neither should you. That little sacrifice that I made pales in comparison to how much it has paid off over the years we've been together. Lots of men and women make sacrifices for the person that they are looking to spend their life with. You ain't special and you don't deserve any recognition or props for it.

In the summer of 2011 I started a business. In the Spring of 2012 I told my wife I was going to quit my $85,000 a year job with benefits to work on my business full time. Her response to me was similar to your wife's response to you. Not because she didn't believe in me but because I was making a risky move that could threaten our security. I went ahead and quit my job anyways inspite of her reservations and by the summer of 2012 she quit her job to work with me full time on our business.

The issue is that you've invested so much time and energy into working a retail job which is very volatile, insecure, and risky. You don't own shyt. You're at the mercy of external forces you have zero control over. You're lucky your wife only made that comment instead of going upside your head with a frying pan for being a jackass.That would have been a more appropriate response.

In a few weeks once you realize how much of an idiot you've been and the reality of your bytchassness begins to creep in you're going to wish you could hop in a time machine. The problem now is that you've demonstrated to your wife and her family, friends, etc that you're a petty, egotistical, weak, and emotionally fragile man. You've shown her and them that you're disloyal. Hopefully your wife has a support network in place that will keep her from returning to you when you inevitability try to slither your way back into her life.

To summarize, bytch nikka man up.

You the real bytch here bruh...the lady you paid to put thru school basically spit in your face when you told her your dream...yet you did nothing...when you showed her you gonna make it, she wanna quit her job and join the team..again you did nothing...O P is more of a man than you...I'd dismiss her in a heartbeat...but not every nikka was meant to be a real nikka...there's space in the game for everybody, including hoe ass nikkas like you

 

[ejthompson23]

I'm starting to wonder if the real reason dude left his girl is because he's affraid to see her be more successful than him.. That lawyer status was creeping up and the thought of ur girl being a lawyer while you working at best buy hurt ur ego. You saw her comment as a possible slight ready to come and u bytched out.



I now know why your "story " doesn't make sense

So he was scared of her success even tho he paid for her to get there...are you just saying dumb shyt to be funny? Who raised yall nikkas?

 

[ejthompson23]

Exactly, to me it sounds that she didn't agree with his decision but she is going to stick around to yet another career move

he is too stubborn...he is not going to get it until he is the old man at the club with a beer belly and a receding hairline

People that really love you and care about you are going to tell you when your shyt stinks...even if its going to hurt your feelings.

I would've been worried if she didn't have any objections to his decisions...because that would clearly show that she is only there for the ride.."a maintained wife"...and wouldn't give a fukk what he does with his life.

I can guarantee you that there was a plan between them about his long-term career in the Army and she held on to that...only to be blindsided by his BB venture.

So you saying because he leaving her that mean he'll never find another woman? you speak like you're a scorned woman on some "you'll never find another bytch like me" type shyt...FOH with that bullshyt...the lady ain't support him even after he's proven that he can and will succeed in whatever endeavor he chooses, she rightly deserved to be kicked to the bushes...

 

[Lavish]

So he was scared of her success even tho he paid for her to get there...are you just saying dumb shyt to be funny? Who raised yall nikkas?

Don't ever quote me if you're not intelligent enough to comprehend a simple concept.

Foh

 

[ejthompson23]

Don't ever quote me if you're not intelligent enough to comprehend a simple concept.

Foh

You just that I chin checked you...

 

[Constantine]

Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs


#TPC

Did she flip the script, or were there warning signs. One of the things my dad told me was you can't change them. He tried to change my mother, and that didn't work out very well.

 

[mson]

I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

She didn't believe in you like Goldies chick

 

[Mook]

Marriage is not fun. It's work. Says so in every single thing you will ever read or hear about it.

Still: silly people get married and when they get bored they wanna leave. Don't ever bother getting married if you are looking for fun. Marriage is for long term goals like a strong foundation for your kids. Your fun time is over.

My birdbrained ex was like that. "I'm not excited anymore". I was not excited with your p*ssy after 365 days, so what?

It's is impossible for a human to get excited about a roller coaster they ride each day for years. It's just brain chemistry. Get your mind right.

Lastly, this is why the world is so sick cause the one and only goal anyone has is entertaining themselves.

This sounds depressing. Only a fukking fool would marry

Yeah guys your fun is fukking over, time to be miserable forever so get married. Its totally worth being miserable fellas!

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yo girl is gorgeous

 

[Rozay Oro]

Weak nikka shyt.


She hurt your feelings so you disrespect VOWS and end a MARRIAGE?
She didn't support you at one time in your life.

My parents didn't support me when I dropped out of high school for two weeks cuz I was sure I didn't need a diploma to be a singer ..but that was 8th grade nikka.

So are you a singer still?

 

[Real N Quotes]

Lol I've never thought of any woman being a "poor man's" version physically of any other woman I've dated. I have a type and I gravitate physically to that type. Personality-wise they are two completely different individuals which is REALLY what I was looking for, she's actually divorced as well and when we first met we had a long conversation about both of our ex-relationships, what worked, what didn't, what our mindsets were towards future relationships and what we both wanted to build. After that conversation and both of us putting both of our expectations front and center (like TRUE ADULTS) we've been kicking it ever since. Every day we attempt to learn something about the other, we conversate frequently and share genuine similar interests.


Last week I was coming off a 65 hour work week, no days off, on Friday night when I got off and went to her place she'd already cooked my favorite food and brought tickets for Ant-Man (which is mentioned I really wanted to see) she straight up told me "you are the hardest working man I've ever known and you NEVER complain, I just wanted to do something to appreciate you".


shyt had me like





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