Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Darts]

You can tell that the OP wife (and apparently a lot of coli posters) are overly impressed with "fancy" job titles/careers. She would probably act worse if he wanted to do a supposed 'dirty' trade job even if he made 70-100K.

"Who would want to be a manager at Best Buy??"


Shame people for their jobs when they likely make more than you brehs/brehettes.

 

[Family Man]

fukk her family, coworkers, her friends and whomever else has an opinion on my decision making and work ethic....


Did I think about how it looked when I was holding down EVERYTHING while she was attempting to "find out what she wanted to do?"

Went from Paralegal for 3 months, to a part time job at a clothing store, to no job studying for the LSAT (classes and study materials paid for by me) to working full time at Verizon. rent, car payment, food, etc paid for by me.

Did I say to myself. "Man I must look like a sucka supporting a woman whose having trouble really making up her mind on a career". No I supported her,never made her feel like a less of a person, encouraged her. When I was in Afghanistan putting the money towards savings (of which not a cent she contributed) and paying the bills for her back home, did I think to myself "oh whatever shall other muthafukkas think of this"


Again, and for the last time. I am not expecting posters on a message board to understand how much work, effort, and commitment went into my time at Best Buy PREVIOUSLY. You can hate on the job or the career decision all you like. The FACTS are however that SHE did. She witnessed it first hand how I MADE that job a viable career, and I did it because I genuinely loved it, was good at it, and was PROUD of the accomplishments. SHE knew it all. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to doubt me or question me in such a disrespectful manner. She shytted on everything that I stood for, and this is supposed to be my wife?


I had a vision and a plan. I knew what needed to be done. I knew I would need to work musket to the bone, outshine all others in a short amount of time, and absolutely be the best, the most knowledgeable, the most dependable. No days off. 7am-10pm. Marta to and from. But if I make a decision then no less than my absolute 150% is going into it.


And the bytch had to nerve to suggest that I would fail...worse..she suggested I would underachieve...that my life's track record was that of mediocrity.


5 months in I'm a manager. I made it Brehs. This may mean nothing to you but it meant EVERYTHING to me to achieve that goal. And it's not the ending point either. My short term Goal is to be the youngest General Manager in the state. My long term goal is to be the District Manager of Geek Squad services.


But you know what I REFUSE to do? I refuse to accomplish anything more with a woman by side who doubted me to such a point that she disrespected my dedication to success. My work ethic, the very fiber of who I am and what I represent. Of all people in this world SHE would've been the one to know who and what I truly am. And at that moment she showed what she truly thought of me...

I would NEVER stayed married to that nor accept that thought process from a woman. Bushes status

bytch nikka man up!

 

[Piff Perkins]

First I wanna dap my brother @Ziggiy for grinding like that. Gotta respect a man who takes pride in his work, no matter what the work is. nikkas making fun of this sound like they don't know about what hard work is. I don't care if you collect the shopping carts at Walmart or are a doctor, if that's what you do be the best at it, and work your way to the top. Much respect.

That being said I'm torn on the divorce. Haven't read all the thread but there must be some other issue between yall. Her comment about making 12.50 as a 35yo man could be seen as her making an exaggeration to make a point, similar to how my parents used to say "you want to not go to school, and become homeless?" Maybe her tone was serious though, clearly you took it seriously.

There's nothing wrong with doubting your SO imo, but you gotta be supportive. Did she do stuff that hurt your progress, or almost hurt it? What does your family think about all this. Also was the marriage on the rocks before this?

 

[Numpsay]

fukk her family, coworkers, her friends and whomever else has an opinion on my decision making and work ethic....


Did I think about how it looked when I was holding down EVERYTHING while she was attempting to "find out what she wanted to do?"

Went from Paralegal for 3 months, to a part time job at a clothing store, to no job studying for the LSAT (classes and study materials paid for by me) to working full time at Verizon. rent, car payment, food, etc paid for by me.

Did I say to myself. "Man I must look like a sucka supporting a woman whose having trouble really making up her mind on a career". No I supported her,never made her feel like a less of a person, encouraged her. When I was in Afghanistan putting the money towards savings (of which not a cent she contributed) and paying the bills for her back home, did I think to myself "oh whatever shall other muthafukkas think of this"


Again, and for the last time. I am not expecting posters on a message board to understand how much work, effort, and commitment went into my time at Best Buy PREVIOUSLY. You can hate on the job or the career decision all you like. The FACTS are however that SHE did. She witnessed it first hand how I MADE that job a viable career, and I did it because I genuinely loved it, was good at it, and was PROUD of the accomplishments. SHE knew it all. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to doubt me or question me in such a disrespectful manner. She shytted on everything that I stood for, and this is supposed to be my wife?


I had a vision and a plan. I knew what needed to be done. I knew I would need to work musket to the bone, outshine all others in a short amount of time, and absolutely be the best, the most knowledgeable, the most dependable. No days off. 7am-10pm. Marta to and from. But if I make a decision then no less than my absolute 150% is going into it.


And the bytch had to nerve to suggest that I would fail...worse..she suggested I would underachieve...that my life's track record was that of mediocrity.


5 months in I'm a manager. I made it Brehs. This may mean nothing to you but it meant EVERYTHING to me to achieve that goal. And it's not the ending point either. My short term Goal is to be the youngest General Manager in the state. My long term goal is to be the District Manager of Geek Squad services.


But you know what I REFUSE to do? I refuse to accomplish anything more with a woman by side who doubted me to such a point that she disrespected my dedication to success. My work ethic, the very fiber of who I am and what I represent. Of all people in this world SHE would've been the one to know who and what I truly am. And at that moment she showed what she truly thought of me...

I would NEVER stayed married to that nor accept that thought process from a woman. Bushes status

Why didn't you leave her from jump when she made the comment if it upset you so much. You supposedly had a unlikely rise in positions at Best Buy, got on, and now you want to throw her in the bushes for a comment that was made months ago. I bet she likely didn't even know this shyt was coming or that you were harboring feelings about the simple statement she made and likely got blindsided by this whole ordeal.

If you proud of this situation then be proud breh, but honestly, to me none of this shyt is anything to be proud about.

 

[Arianne Martell]

bytch nikka man up!

seriously...dude needs his dad to slap the estrogen out of him

 

[dem bath salts]

fukk her family, coworkers, her friends and whomever else has an opinion on my decision making and work ethic....


Did I think about how it looked when I was holding down EVERYTHING while she was attempting to "find out what she wanted to do?"

Went from Paralegal for 3 months, to a part time job at a clothing store, to no job studying for the LSAT (classes and study materials paid for by me) to working full time at Verizon. rent, car payment, food, etc paid for by me.

Did I say to myself. "Man I must look like a sucka supporting a woman whose having trouble really making up her mind on a career". No I supported her,never made her feel like a less of a person, encouraged her. When I was in Afghanistan putting the money towards savings (of which not a cent she contributed) and paying the bills for her back home, did I think to myself "oh whatever shall other muthafukkas think of this"


Again, and for the last time. I am not expecting posters on a message board to understand how much work, effort, and commitment went into my time at Best Buy PREVIOUSLY. You can hate on the job or the career decision all you like. The FACTS are however that SHE did. She witnessed it first hand how I MADE that job a viable career, and I did it because I genuinely loved it, was good at it, and was PROUD of the accomplishments. SHE knew it all. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to doubt me or question me in such a disrespectful manner. She shytted on everything that I stood for, and this is supposed to be my wife?


I had a vision and a plan. I knew what needed to be done. I knew I would need to work musket to the bone, outshine all others in a short amount of time, and absolutely be the best, the most knowledgeable, the most dependable. No days off. 7am-10pm. Marta to and from. But if I make a decision then no less than my absolute 150% is going into it.


And the bytch had to nerve to suggest that I would fail...worse..she suggested I would underachieve...that my life's track record was that of mediocrity.


5 months in I'm a manager. I made it Brehs. This may mean nothing to you but it meant EVERYTHING to me to achieve that goal. And it's not the ending point either. My short term Goal is to be the youngest General Manager in the state. My long term goal is to be the District Manager of Geek Squad services.


But you know what I REFUSE to do? I refuse to accomplish anything more with a woman by side who doubted me to such a point that she disrespected my dedication to success. My work ethic, the very fiber of who I am and what I represent. Of all people in this world SHE would've been the one to know who and what I truly am. And at that moment she showed what she truly thought of me...

I would NEVER stayed married to that nor accept that thought process from a woman. Bushes status

 

[OG Talk]

fukk her family, coworkers, her friends and whomever else has an opinion on my decision making and work ethic....


Did I think about how it looked when I was holding down EVERYTHING while she was attempting to "find out what she wanted to do?"

Went from Paralegal for 3 months, to a part time job at a clothing store, to no job studying for the LSAT (classes and study materials paid for by me) to working full time at Verizon. rent, car payment, food, etc paid for by me.

Did I say to myself. "Man I must look like a sucka supporting a woman whose having trouble really making up her mind on a career". No I supported her,never made her feel like a less of a person, encouraged her. When I was in Afghanistan putting the money towards savings (of which not a cent she contributed) and paying the bills for her back home, did I think to myself "oh whatever shall other muthafukkas think of this"


Again, and for the last time. I am not expecting posters on a message board to understand how much work, effort, and commitment went into my time at Best Buy PREVIOUSLY. You can hate on the job or the career decision all you like. The FACTS are however that SHE did. She witnessed it first hand how I MADE that job a viable career, and I did it because I genuinely loved it, was good at it, and was PROUD of the accomplishments. SHE knew it all. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to doubt me or question me in such a disrespectful manner. She shytted on everything that I stood for, and this is supposed to be my wife?


I had a vision and a plan. I knew what needed to be done. I knew I would need to work musket to the bone, outshine all others in a short amount of time, and absolutely be the best, the most knowledgeable, the most dependable. No days off. 7am-10pm. Marta to and from. But if I make a decision then no less than my absolute 150% is going into it.


And the bytch had to nerve to suggest that I would fail...worse..she suggested I would underachieve...that my life's track record was that of mediocrity.


5 months in I'm a manager. I made it Brehs. This may mean nothing to you but it meant EVERYTHING to me to achieve that goal. And it's not the ending point either. My short term Goal is to be the youngest General Manager in the state. My long term goal is to be the District Manager of Geek Squad services.


But you know what I REFUSE to do? I refuse to accomplish anything more with a woman by side who doubted me to such a point that she disrespected my dedication to success. My work ethic, the very fiber of who I am and what I represent. Of all people in this world SHE would've been the one to know who and what I truly am. And at that moment she showed what she truly thought of me...

I would NEVER stayed married to that nor accept that thought process from a woman. Bushes status

Breh it sounds like you have more love and passion for Best Buy than you did for your wife..

"These stores ain't loyal"

 

[714562]

Something tells me this isn't the first time OP's pride has cost him a relationship.

The fact that she "saw him do it all before" bolsters HER argument and not his.

If you saw your significant other work their way up from Best Buy and then go BACK to Best Buy, wouldn't you be concerned?

Pride, man. Foolish, foolish pride.

I really, really hope there were other reasons for this divorce because OP sounds like an egomaniac.

Why didn't you leave her from jump when she made the comment if it upset you so much. You supposedly had a unlikely rise in positions at Best Buy, got on, and now you want to throw her in the bushes for a comment that was made months ago. I bet she likely didn't even know this shyt was coming or that you were harboring feelings about the simple statement she made and likely got blindsided by this whole ordeal.
If you proud of this situation then be proud breh, but honestly, to me none of this shyt is anything to be proud about.

Right? This man STEWED in his hurt feelings for months while he worked his ass off at Best Buy, then divorced his wife to prove a point. That's feminine behavior.

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

Again, and for the last time. I am not expecting posters on a message board to understand how much work, effort, and commitment went into my time at Best Buy PREVIOUSLY. You can hate on the job or the career decision all you like. The FACTS are however that SHE did. She witnessed it first hand how I MADE that job a viable career, and I did it because I genuinely loved it, was good at it, and was PROUD of the accomplishments. SHE knew it all. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to doubt me or question me in such a disrespectful manner. She shytted on everything that I stood for, and this is supposed to be my wife?


I had a vision and a plan. I knew what needed to be done. I knew I would need to work musket to the bone, outshine all others in a short amount of time, and absolutely be the best, the most knowledgeable, the most dependable. No days off. 7am-10pm. Marta to and from. But if I make a decision then no less than my absolute 150% is going into it.

5 months in I'm a manager. I made it Brehs. This may mean nothing to you but it meant EVERYTHING to me to achieve that goal. And it's not the ending point either. My short term Goal is to be the youngest General Manager in the state. My long term goal is to be the District Manager of Geek Squad services.

This post makes me think you got your "vision and plan" from watching Coming to America

"Hey, I started out mopping the floor just like you guys. But now... now I'm washing lettuce. Soon I'll be on fries; then the grill. And pretty soon, I'll make assistant manager, and that's when the big bucks start rolling in."

 

[88m3]

you can't be serious op

 

[Data-Hawk]

shyt, I'm about to get me a job at best buy. I gots to see what the hype is about .

 

[ThatKidBlackHippy]

some of y'all criticizing his choice is goin' a bit too hard, its not like he was some bum who didnt wanna do anything with his life but sit around and his girl called him out on it ... even if she may have a point, coming at him like that is not cool imo. plus keep in mind he knows her better than we do, what may seem like a comment when written down on a msg board may come off in person given the history and context. at least he is being honest with her instead of keeping her around and just having a roster of chicks on the side.

people dont always make the same choices as you, especially given the different history, experiences and circumstances. i personally don't necessarily agree with joining the us army and would be honest and tell a friend that if thats their choice but im not gonna sit here tellin homie "well why did you serve in the first place".

@Ziggiy good luck with everything bruh, hope this makes you happier in the long run

 

[Mr210]

Ok breh

 

[Real N Quotes]

I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

I have no words...that is just to real

 

[Peak]

Pathetic