Getting a Divorce Brehs...
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playplayaj
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Op knows whats best for him but the bolded is true as a motherfukker
I think you doing the right thing, from the information you provided, u already proved yourself and if she still has doubts when your resume speak for itself then she can't be satisfied. I been through this before, majority of people are like this, when it comes to the workplace, friendships, etc.
The thing that's hurtful is this is ur wife, out of all the women u coulda settled down with u chose her, so that alone should be enough for her to not question ur Judgement and she did because that's what women do. Run their mouth without filter because majority of time nobody checks them.
Having said all that, what u have to think of is if her questioning ur decisions is enough to set u off, then what about the next woman? because I guarantee the next hoe gun say sum dumb shyt too because that's what women do. This is why I have been saying since I joined this site, we need to start from the root and that is family.
What are our parents teaching us, what are women being taught that you can't get a respectable woman these days, same goes for our men, once we start reviewing our socialization process, from our religious leaders to or school syllabus then we gun have a society where men and women can be productive and work together to achieve one common goal.
What they teaching now is not working and we need to start at the root.
The thing that's hurtful is this is ur wife, out of all the women u coulda settled down with u chose her, so that alone should be enough for her to not question ur Judgement and she did because that's what women do. Run their mouth without filter because majority of time nobody checks them.
Having said all that, what u have to think of is if her questioning ur decisions is enough to set u off, then what about the next woman? because I guarantee the next hoe gun say sum dumb shyt too because that's what women do. This is why I have been saying since I joined this site, we need to start from the root and that is family.
What are our parents teaching us, what are women being taught that you can't get a respectable woman these days, same goes for our men, once we start reviewing our socialization process, from our religious leaders to or school syllabus then we gun have a society where men and women can be productive and work together to achieve one common goal.
What they teaching now is not working and we need to start at the root.
Something tells me she may have did a lil sumn sumn while you where away....
so you believe everything the media telling you huh?
I haven't read through all the pages in this thread but if what she said was the reason you fell out a love. You should never get married again. You'll honestly might be wasting your time. You might be a tad bit on the sensitive side.
My honest opinion retail management is a burnout job. My local Best Buy runs through managers like clockwork breh. Them folks aren't working a corporate job neither.
My honest opinion retail management is a burnout job. My local Best Buy runs through managers like clockwork breh. Them folks aren't working a corporate job neither.
he basically got his feeling hurt and couldn't cope with that shyt 
Anyone should be questioned in their late 20s applying for a job at best buy
Anyone should be questioned in their late 20s applying for a job at best buy
Aceofspades404
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Didn't you say you're fiance works a regular job and you were the bread winner? so why would her studying anthropology even matter when the outcome would have been the same
As for op, the problem isn't your wife, it's you. I would write a whole dissertation but it's not like you would care.
you aint getting that tax cut and the beautiful family home loan tho
Didn't you say you're fiance works a regular job and you were the bread winner? so why would her studying anthropology even matter when the outcome would have been the same
As for op, the problem isn't your wife, it's you. I would write a whole dissertation but it's not like you would care.
No. My fiancé is in school actually. I said once we HAVE kids she can stay home and look after my kids. But I'm not advising any black person I know and love to go and study fukking anthropology. University costs £9,000 why the hell would she carry around stupid debt (which will affect me) for a B.S degree she'll never use ?! She is in school and works part time so her income is low now but she actually has aspirations and goals to hit before she has kids and in order for her to reach that it's best she studies the best major possible and sorry anthropology isn't worth getting into debt over.