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Malik

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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

Other people have a lot to say in this thread but, only you know what's good for you brah. That's how a lot of women are. It's their nature. When you was supporting her, it was all good. The short moment you fell on hard times, suddenly, you're less of a man in her eyes :patrice: Wish you the best.
 

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This post makes me think you got your "vision and plan" from watching Coming to America

"Hey, I started out mopping the floor just like you guys. But now... now I'm washing lettuce. Soon I'll be on fries; then the grill. And pretty soon, I'll make assistant manager, and that's when the big bucks start rolling in."

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Already moved out

Haven't seen her since the day I told her I was done. Only calls/texts to make sure that we're in agreeance on terms for a no fault....
when u say she was different when u moved in with her what do you mean?
 

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she never cheat on you
she didnt even leave you when you wanted to work at bestbuy
she stayed with you...did not support you but stayed with you
shes not a bad woman bruh
you are fukking up man plus she begged and pleaded to stay with you,
lol bruh stop fukkin up the dating pool is full of thots goddiggers, instagram whores single moms , damaged women etc lol
u throwin away a loyal woman to date my nikka? to DATE? HAHAHA
sort yourself out and make back up with your wife bro
@Ziggiy
 

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lol bruh stop fukkin up the dating pool is full of thots goddiggers, instagram whores single moms , damaged women etc lol
u throwin away a loyal woman to date my nikka? to DATE? HAHAHA

He been out of the game for the last decade. FB and IG didn't even exist. He about to get that wakeup call :mjlol:
 

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OP should just come out and admit it was something deeper than that one comment. Cause If you truly love someone one comment where you feel you were disrespected ain't gonna dead the whole relationship.

When my wife says some sideways shyt to me I just check her, we might get into it, but eventually we move on, Ain't no way two people gonna be together and it's never any arguments, disagreements, or feelings of disrespect.

Lord knows I done said some FUKKED UP things to my wife in our worst arguments, but she still loves me and holds me down more than ANY other female I have ever been with ( and lord knows i have had my share). Marriage is about working through the MANY hard times that life gives the both of you TOGETHER. yea she doubted you, but it seems your ego isn't letting you see where she was coming from at the time. Sometimes you even have to prove certain things to the people you love because they are afraid or nervous about the future.

Just know the next girl gonna piss you off the same way...You gonna leave her too?
 

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this thread has inspired me something special

me: i wanna work at dollar general then be a manager
her: baby u deserve better than doing that
me: fukk u say :camby: get to packing I'm done with you disrespecting me

days later hit up match.com, okcupid, e-harmony, pof, blackplanet, myspace, Facebook etc.....


weeks later starts to realize and feel like this



 

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she never cheat on you
she didnt even leave you when you wanted to work at bestbuy
she stayed with you...did not support you but stayed with you
shes not a bad woman bruh
you are fukking up man plus she begged and pleaded to stay with you,
lol bruh stop fukkin up the dating pool is full of thots goddiggers, instagram whores single moms , damaged women etc lol
u throwin away a loyal woman to date my nikka? to DATE? HAHAHA
sort yourself out and make back up with your wife bro
@Ziggiy
Dude gonna find the hardway

She even pleaded to stay with him

Man that's a sign of loyalty

This nikka is heartless
 
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