Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Theraflu]

*raises hand*

Yes ofcourse

and you have shytty inlaws too

 

[sayyestothis]

IMO its weak to just up and leave a marriage over a comment. Whats wrong with YOUR WIFE AKA your other half to have an opinion on HER other half no matter what it is???

You gave her that right when you decided to marry her and share your life with her.

And the whole debate about working at best buy etc. I mean everyone's different but IMO working shyt hours for a company that is STRUGGLING for 40k a year plus bonuses??? Noooooot for me.

Imean my wife would be like wtf if my "plan" or "dream" was to work at a retail store putting in open to close 80 hr weeks for 100k too.

IMO....

 

[OG Talk]

Umm it's two of yall, you have one set of bills, two incomes and pay less in taxes. If you don't set yourself up to win in that situation, you're doing something wrong.

You are totally ignoring so many other variables..Life just isn't simple and clean like that..You have children, daycare, in laws, higher insurance and numerous other things that don't fit into that tiny box..

What if you get married and one of you loses an income do to downsizing or layoffs and you are forced to support two adults on one income in a shrinking economy? What if you still have to help her/him pay their student loans while they look for work so it doesn't effect BOTH of your credit scores?

What if you both have good jobs, but she gets pregnant and God forbid its a special needs child with astronomical healthcare and childcare costs? Or what if you just get blessed with healthy twins or triplets?

Or you can be like me and get married to a girl from New Orleans 2 weeks before Katrina hits and you find yourself with 20 extended family members in your new small 2 bedroom home...

These are the type of things that nobody that's single has to worry about.. I think a lot of young people (especially educated ones) fall into that Jay-Z/Beyonce fantasy where you get your bread, stack it on top of her bread and build this successful Black kingdome of working professionals...Naw breh.. Married life STAYS throwing you curve balls..The only expectation you should have is that yall will always have each other's backs..

 

[Warren Moon]

my nikka ya wife divorcing you


u got pics of u skeeting on that fat hoe all on the net
right next to pics of your son
that are next to pics of u eating out a fat white bytch




now u dating a midly retarded 19 rican hoe





your life is done

Please link pics so this thread will go plat

 

[Food Mane]

at choosing a dying industry

If I told my wife in 2004 I was going to start at the bottom and work my way up at Blockbuster I hope she would have checked me

edit:



scroll to the bottom, it's number 2

http://retailindustry.about.com/od/...-Retail-Industry-Chains-to-Close-Stores_2.htm

 

[Joe Budden]

Rafters

 

[-G$-]

Yes ofcourse

and you have shytty inlaws too

yeah but now i moved and we have manhattan and 2 tunnels or bridges between us

 

[Data-Hawk]

To be honest I'm surprised she didn't leave you

You were away in the Army
Come back and work all day at best buy..


If she left over that, I'm certain the same posters defending you, would be the same ones going in on her. On some " fukk these bytches man, she was probably cheating"



"Best Buty is tearing this family apart!!!"

 

[Nomad1]

This whole thread got me

Thank god I aint married

 

[CACarot]

This nikka sound dumb. So a comment about working at BB for 12.50 is warrant for a divorce. There is more to the story..that must have been more of a way out than a cause for divorce. Honestly you had no idea if you would get promoted to manager, and she had a right to question your decision making when she is proally going to be a caking. You have other reasons for dipping and this one isnt it..be true to ya self you bitcchmade ass phaggot.

 

[MikelArteta]

Look at all these married and engaged men trying to control a brother. You lost another one

Freedom and respect is something a man should never give up.

 

[really tho]

so nobody going to bring up the fact that OP has commitment issues? he couldn't commit to the first best buy job, couldnt commit to the army - straight decided he was "done" and now he bounces on his wife when she hits him with the after he says he wants to go work for best buy again.

only on the coli

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

nikka, I'd clown you too!!!

She doesnt have one either..i didnt clown her

 

[Rekkapryde]

She doesnt have one either..i didnt clown her

I would.....the Couchless Couple....

fukk BOTH of yall couches nikka......don't ask me how!

 

[mcdivit85]

i really dont mean to say this in a disrespectful way, but u sound like an idiot. what kind of a woman doesn't want the best for her man? the way she responded may have needed a lil trimming, but she has a point.

and yes, you made manager in a matter of 5 months, but the question is, how much more than 12.50 are you making?

and when you speak of this success, i mean, what???

first of all,u shouldn't have gotten married that young but thats neither here nor there. smarten up man.

Yo, minus the idiot thing, bro has a point here.

I mean how many grown women would feel secure hearing their husband say his ambition after coming back from the army was to work part-time at Best Buy? For teenage wages? Not even full-time? Not even try somewhere else first?

Yes, you proved her wrong and got to manager level. But think about it? What was the true probability of you doing that in such a short time when there's others who probably wanted the same position? You beat the odds but the odds were not in your favor. And as a third party, even I would have been skeptical of going from part-time sales associate to store manager in less than 6 months.

I'm not saying you were wrong or she was right. Any woman who disrespects her dude and makes him feel low runs the chances of fierce repercussion since men think with their egos generally.

But if your mid-20s wife told you her ambition was to work part-time at Wal-mart and hopefully make manager in the next couple months, how excited would you be?

Peace