Getting a Divorce Brehs...

Data-Hawk

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On one hand I can't fukk with walking away from your vows that way, that's your word....

On the other I respect OP for standing by his principles. :salute: Honestly I imagine your wife is someone who's supposed to be on your corner no matter what cause yall are a team/family. For someone that close to you to shyt on your ambition/hustle like that....gut wrenching. To go into your grind feeling like your own wife is part of the opps of you vs the world :dwillhuh:


It's a typical woman ass comment but idk sometimes a chick says some bird shyt that may just be the straw that breaks the camel's back. makes you rethink her position. Not just a "is she a good wife" type consideration but a "is this the type of person I want on my team going forward" one. I wouldn't wanna live with a energy vampire

Sometimes being in your corner is giving you advise you don't want to hear. Not saying it applies to this situation, but support is not always "ok I'm going to go along with your plan". If that was the case you don't need parents outside of taking care of their kids financially.

I'm happy for the OP, but let's not act like his 5 months to manager is the typical case for best buy employees, she had every right to be concerned.
 

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Yet it's the #1 cause of divorce :manny:

lol

Marriage doesn't cause divorce.
You just have to be married to get divorced.

I mean that's like saying Life is the cause of Death.

:skip:

You're turning this into a chicken and egg thing. You can have all the perks of a marriage without actually getting married. That way, you avoid divorce.

Explain to me how something that's not alive can die.

:heh: ya two going back n forth reminded me of this shyt
 

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These are the personalities of the winners breh. You look at successful people and you will see a trail of bodies behind them. Still, you have to imagine how he's going to be when he does get to corporate......

Ziggy - Winterhaven, I read your report. You stated that we couldn't make this quarters numbers based upon current trends, is that correct? :demonic:

Winterhaven - Yes sir :lupe:, but we still have beat last quarter's estimates three times over. :whoa:

Ziggy - Winterhaven, I had your job once and I always made my numbers. That's how I got here. Now as your boss, when you tell me you can't make your numbers, you're really telling me that I can't make the numbers. You doubt me. My wife doubted me once. :scust: My EX wife I should say. You see where I'm going with this don't you? :birdman:

Winterhaven - Please sir, this is my last day, I retire after 30 years of service. :mjcry:

Ziggy - Then you should have had your replacement turn in the report tomorrow. Beat it. :camby:


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i think, like some people have said in here, OP just wasnt as in love with his wife as he thought. if u are really in love, a shytty comment like that wont make u question their love for u. u just wanted out of the marriage and u latched on to that. but im not judging u tho. everybody has a right to whatever makes them happy.
 

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Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs:blessed:


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One step closer to your final steps. Cheeseburgers, pizza, booze, obesity, :flabbynsick: ,clogged arteries, a b*stard child and then check out time, alone
 

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Breh, I think most of us are just saying it has to be more to it than just that one statement. Like maybe she was saying this everyday + other things. How was the relationship in-between that one statement and when he made manager. Why wait unt you make manager and decide to bounce? There has to be more is all we are saying.
Yep, I personally think he just want some new shyt, and it's his HS girl I was itching for new puss breh, I couldn't marry at that age. Nothing wrong with that, but be honest and don't have her thinking for the rest of her life that one statement destroyed the marriage, the marriage was gonna end with or without that shyt.
 

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I wish I would have read the other story about him working at best buy to support her dream or whatever. It makes more sense now wanting to divorce her for not supporting that dream...again. I thought ol boy straight up went to the Army and came out desiring to be a best buy manager. I felt that was kind of "off". At the same time I still see the wife's concern. Like we are building a future and you want to take your career back to where you were WHILE we were getting on our feet. That's a backwards hustle for sure.
 
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