Getting a Divorce Brehs...

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Always-Right Liggins said:
Exactly. You all are stating he stay in a marriage with a person he doesn't love and that's not fair to either of them. If a woman said she was going to stay with a man she doesn't love "just because" nikkas would be mad as fukk. When you're out of love, just leave.
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Breh, I think most of us are just saying it has to be more to it than just that one statement. Like maybe she was saying this everyday + other things. How was the relationship in-between that one statement and when he made manager. Why wait unt you make manager and decide to bounce? There has to be more is all we are saying.
 
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Ziggiy said:
The fact of the matter is that I spent two years supporting her while she decided if she wanted to go to Law School, be a paralegal, work at Nordstroms, work at Verizon, or whatever else. I supported her. Even when I was making the majority of the income and she was studying for the LSAT. I never questioned her. Came back from Afghanistan with almost 8K in savings (of which she contributed not ONE penny) and having decided to leave the Army now was my time to decide how I was going to transition back into civilian life.

The truth is I worked for Best Buy before, loved it. I love retail, I love helping customers, I love technology. All of those romantic gifts and surprises and trips she loved so much years beforehand. Best buy checks paid for that. I was making more than $12.50 before all of this, supporting myself, paying all of my bills, etc. BEFOREHAND as an unmarried man. She knew all of this. So for her to at ANY point question my commitment to being successful in wanting to return as a grown ass MARRIED man was the absolute pinnacle of disrespect. I don't give a fukk what your misgivings are, you do not look your husband, the husband who has supported you emotionally and financially since even before we were married, in eye and suggest sarcastically that he will enter middle age as a failure.


It will not be tolerated.


Call me whatever you like Brehs or think what you are entitled to think. But my personal code of living is that to be married to somebody who has that little faith in you after your entire life has been spent proving to the contrary is simply unacceptable.
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It's your life but divorce sounds extreme as hell over this...did you live with her before you were married?
 
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i been through that shyt. hardest shyt in my life. even when we parted ways alot of feelings still lingered. and accepting that the future you envisioned is not going to happen can crush a person, but when you know its over you gotta accept it and move on, theres nothing that can be gained by holding on to something that makes you unhappy.

my ex-wife still love each other because once you love someone you love them forever, but sometimes thats not enough and you have to let each other go. obviously in Ziggiy's case the lack of support had a major effect on his happiness. theres no feeling worse than being in a relationship and feeling like you are doing it alone.
 
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1298ty said:
In 4 years when that Best Buy is a Shoprite all you'll have is this coli thread :mjcry:

She'll be making lawyer money building with her second husband :mjcry:

All because she had the audacity to question one of your decisions :mjlol:

You really showed her :mjcry:

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This shyt just killed me :mjlol:
 
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Ziggiy said:
The fact of the matter is that I spent two years supporting her while she decided if she wanted to go to Law School, be a paralegal, work at Nordstroms, work at Verizon, or whatever else. I supported her. Even when I was making the majority of the income and she was studying for the LSAT. I never questioned her. Came back from Afghanistan with almost 8K in savings (of which she contributed not ONE penny) and having decided to leave the Army now was my time to decide how I was going to transition back into civilian life.

The truth is I worked for Best Buy before, loved it. I love retail, I love helping customers, I love technology. All of those romantic gifts and surprises and trips she loved so much years beforehand. Best buy checks paid for that. I was making more than $12.50 before all of this, supporting myself, paying all of my bills, etc. BEFOREHAND as an unmarried man. She knew all of this. So for her to at ANY point question my commitment to being successful in wanting to return as a grown ass MARRIED man was the absolute pinnacle of disrespect. I don't give a fukk what your misgivings are, you do not look your husband, the husband who has supported you emotionally and financially since even before we were married, in eye and suggest sarcastically that he will enter middle age as a failure.


It will not be tolerated.


Call me whatever you like Brehs or think what you are entitled to think. But my personal code of living is that to be married to somebody who has that little faith in you after your entire life has been spent proving to the contrary is simply unacceptable.
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If a slight like that is enough for you to fall out of love, then you didn't love her in the first place:yeshrug:

Getting divorced was the right thing to do:ehh:
 
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