so nobody going to bring up the fact that OP has commitment issues? he couldn't commit to the first best buy job, couldnt commit to the army - straight decided he was "done" and now he bounces on his wife when she hits him with theafter he says he wants to go work for best buy again.
only on the coli
I would.....the Couchless Couple....
fukk BOTH of yall couches nikka......don't ask me how!
No shade breh, but $12.50 an hour?
I kind of have to side with her. if I was your homie, id probably tell you the same thing.
congrats on being manager, but please enlighten us on whats so great about being manager at best buy? I mean it kind of has that "Im manager at mcdonalds" type of vibe to it...like what you making? $17/hr? c'mon man. it sounds like you overreacted. It not like she left you when she found out where you wanted to work. she just asked you a question and you ready to throw her in the bushes
I could understand if you wanted to be a musician, or an athelete, or anything profession that you had dreams of being and she shytted on you...
but I refuse to believe you had dreams of becoming manager at best buy
Maybe you just need to give us more details of this situation, because from what you posted, you sound irrational.
your happiness is definately more important, but I'm just lost at how something like that could make you unhappy.
at choosing a dying industry
If I told my wife in 2004 I was going to start at the bottom and work my way up at Blockbuster I hope she would have checked me
edit:
scroll to the bottom, it's number 2
http://retailindustry.about.com/od/...-Retail-Industry-Chains-to-Close-Stores_2.htm
If I told my wife in 2004 I was going to start at the bottom and work my way up at Blockbuster I hope she would have checked me
edit:
scroll to the bottom, it's number 2
http://retailindustry.about.com/od/...-Retail-Industry-Chains-to-Close-Stores_2.htm
You are totally ignoring so many other variables..Life just isn't simple and clean like that..You have children, daycare, in laws, higher insurance and numerous other things that don't fit into that tiny box..
What if you get married and one of you loses an income do to downsizing or layoffs and you are forced to support two adults on one income in a shrinking economy? What if you still have to help her/him pay their student loans while they look for work so it doesn't effect BOTH of your credit scores?
What if you both have good jobs, but she gets pregnant and God forbid its a special needs child with astronomical healthcare and childcare costs? Or what if you just get blessed with healthy twins or triplets?
Or you can be like me and get married to a girl from New Orleans 2 weeks before Katrina hits and you find yourself with 20 extended family members in your new small 2 bedroom home...
These are the type of things that nobody that's single has to worry about.. I think a lot of young people (especially educated ones) fall into that Jay-Z/Beyonce fantasy where you get your bread, stack it on top of her bread and build this successful Black kingdome of working professionals...Naw breh.. Married life STAYS throwing you curve balls..The only expectation you should have is that yall will always have each other's backs..
I swear to god your situation is the same as mine with my ex wife down to being in the military. I've been divorced for like 5 years though. I was married for almost 4 years. shyt is going to be rough my G. I asked for the divorce in my situation as well. Don't get lost out there homie. When I got free I was in a place where I was making way more money than I had before and I was 30 so I was fukking with bytches who saw me as a meal ticket having a decent job and not having kids at my advance age LOL. shyt got super crazy. I settled down now though got me a younger chick who I'm going to marry eventually.
If I told my wife in 2004 I was going to start at the bottom and work my way up at Blockbuster I hope she would have checked me
edit:
scroll to the bottom, it's number 2
http://retailindustry.about.com/od/...-Retail-Industry-Chains-to-Close-Stores_2.htm
Yet it's the #1 cause of divorce
lol
Marriage doesn't cause divorce.
You just have to be married to get divorced.
I mean that's like saying Life is the cause of Death.
I hear ya..
This post makes you think
You are totally ignoring so many other variables..Life just isn't simple and clean like that..You have children, daycare, in laws, higher insurance and numerous other things that don't fit into that tiny box..
What if you get married and one of you loses an income do to downsizing or layoffs and you are forced to support two adults on one income in a shrinking economy? What if you still have to help her/him pay their student loans while they look for work so it doesn't effect BOTH of your credit scores?
What if you both have good jobs, but she gets pregnant and God forbid its a special needs child with astronomical healthcare and childcare costs? Or what if you just get blessed with healthy twins or triplets?
Or you can be like me and get married to a girl from New Orleans 2 weeks before Katrina hits and you find yourself with 20 extended family members in your new small 2 bedroom home...
These are the type of things that nobody that's single has to worry about.. I think a lot of young people (especially educated ones) fall into that Jay-Z/Beyonce fantasy where you get your bread, stack it on top of her bread and build this successful Black kingdome of working professionals...Naw breh.. Married life STAYS throwing you curve balls..The only expectation you should have is that yall will always have each other's backs..
to OP
