ill be candid, if you are not mentally and spiritually solid, approaching women let alone dealing with them will be more hassle than it is worth to you
you think a woman will fix your problems but you are sorely mistaken. Your problems to me stem from your ideas of yourself ruling over you.
Exactly. It's night and day. When I had mental health issues and was spiritually confused, I still had women but 95 percent of those situations ended terribly
The rest faded away eventually but amicably
One of the things I learned is a lack of confidence and self respect is very noticeable. Me seeing some of these women irl once they look at me. Even looking at some of these profiles
That made me think of how insecure and desperate I was years ago. That alone pushed women away. And what I see now with these sad women is what women probably saw in me before 2022
And if that didn't, then the toxic ones used that to see what they could pimp out of me. Validation, complimentary venting sessions, attention, all of that
Once you have self-love, something higher than yourself (relax atheists this is proven) and a purpose in life, you are like 90 percent more likely to have a fulfilling life
You perceive everything differently. You're healthy holistically. You put yourself first. You don't live for women more than you do for yourself and your genuine happiness
We can only give so much game tho. I only give unsolicited advice when I've lived through situations. Some people listen to me, some people get annoyed
But you know what the Word says about listening to counsel and planting seeds. That's all I can do
