threattonature
Veteran
A possible different viewpoint, could it be ease and accessibility of getting with non-black women. I know for me for instance in high school the black women that threw themselves at me were the ratchets which I had no interest in. I was always more into the nerdy/bookworm type of girls. There were a lot more non-black women like that in my school and they were usually a lot more forward about trying to get at me than black girls with similar personalities. I lucked up and found me a black woman at the type that was more my type but if I never met her I may have given in and went for the non-black women.I'm not gonna jump on the "he hates black women" bandwagon, but that "black women weren't checking for me" shyt is a copout. I know waaaay too many types of black women for black male celebs to keep getting away with this bullshyt excuse/line. I'm pretty sure they (black male celebs) were the type to want to chase after chicks like draya, blacc chyna, and all the other bad bytches around the way or on campus and gave no play to the quirky black chicks, the nerds, the quiet ones, the level headed ones who weren't about putting themselves out there. Them using that excuse is as silly as black women talking they can't find a good black man when all they want is the flyest, most flossin, big nikka around the way, "look at me" type dudes
The same insecurity nerdy/quirky black men have about not being black enough or not feeling like they fit in nerdy/quirky black women also have that same insecurity which often manifests itself in feeling like you're not wanted by black men or women which leads to being less forward. Most men go for the sure thing and don't want to put work into really searching for women so they go with what comes easy to them.