I'm not gonna jump on the "he hates black women" bandwagon, but that "black women weren't checking for me" shyt is a copout. I know waaaay too many types of black women for black male celebs to keep getting away with this bullshyt excuse/line. I'm pretty sure they (black male celebs) were the type to want to chase after chicks like draya, blacc chyna, and all the other bad bytches around the way or on campus and gave no play to the quirky black chicks, the nerds, the quiet ones, the level headed ones who weren't about putting themselves out there.
Them using that excuse is as silly as black women talking they can't find a good black man when all they want is the flyest, most flossin, big nikka around the way, "look at me" type dudes[/QUOTE]
Lol I hear you
@dora_da_destroyer I don't want that smoke, you're giving insight/pov from a woman's perspective so I'm all ears
All I'm saying is just because a woman is quirky, nerdy or quiet doesn't mean that's what she wants in a man...
A dude that seen as quirky/weird is considered lame at a young age
A woman that's quirky/weird is still getting holla at, this is at a young age (what I think he was referring to when he says they weren't checking for him)
As a grownup we should be past that
I often see reserved quiet women with wild dudes...a lot of times we automatically assume just because a woman is really smart ("nerdy") or reserved or something that is what she likes...when a LOT of times that's not true
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you're right both sides do sometimes overlook people so you speaking facts