there is no difference
why didn't you step your game up and accept responsibility for your race and marry a black queen instead of opting to take the easy way out by settling for a white woman? At least with them going to Brazil, they have the potential to deal with someone with black blood in them. Why didn't you man up and hold down your community for the future of the black race and marry and share your finances with a black woman? Why didn't you tether yourself to 'your only ally' as you expect them to? How do you know that these men didn't mentor their community or raise kids here? They are like 30 to 50+ years old.
Cause at the end of the day, for me personally my wife was a good match from jump street. I didn't settle at all, you woe is me dudes wouldn't even be in the space to meet a woman like my wife. We are not one of those People of Walmart type couples bruh
And I know none of these men did any of that shyt here because they left...
If them negroes are happier going overseas, I ain't mad at them. Why are you? Ya'll trying to paint them as if they are abandoning their community. The only cats I been noticing that are getting mad are the ones who are married or in long term relationships...
Bruh.... if moving thousands of miles away isn't abandoning your community what is
lol@telling us we need to 'step our game up', which in ya'lls mind is essentially settling for less, because in a few posts later, ya'll talking about their demands for women here are just too high. If their dollar wasn't stretching it here, why in the world would ya'll be mad at them for exchanging their currency somewhere else and finding more value for their time and effort? Funny how every interaction men have overseas is automatically pegged to prostitution, which attests to how YA'LL may think, but has little to say of what others are actually doing overseas. It almost sounds like some of you are envious of their position.
This makes no sense... when I say step your game up, I mean step your game up... upgrade your appearance, upgrade your financial status, upgrade your mind, upgrade your social circle.... then you won't have to settle.
And why would I be envious of their position? I'm married to the love of my life. I can go to Brazil. I was out of the country twice this year, and next year I'm prob leaving twice again (Japan + Maldives and hopefully Ghana). And I have everything I want here in the US, I don't have to flee the country to find love + peace
The only real retort to men expanding their option is, 'lolz they can't get coochie here so they need to fly overseas,' when what was being discussed in the documentary or in this thread has NOTHING to do with getting sex... it comes down to ATTITUDE and looking for a woman that plays the more traditional role of a woman. Some of them negroes may have been going for pay to play, but some of them may have actually ENJOYED the culture they've experienced elsewhere and found the attitude of the women they experienced there refreshing. I don't know where ya'll get this notion that sex is somehow difficult to get or even the topic.
Again, the problem isn't that the women won't play the traditional role, its that these dudes don't bring enough to the table to show these women they are men worth submitting to
And if a chick doesn't see you as someone she would want to submit to, she's not giving you the ass. But shes also not gonna give you respect or time of day.
And what in the world kind of sense does that even make? If it was just about 'getting the coochie', they'd save a ton of money paying prostitutes HERE instead of flying to a foreign country. It couldn't be that some guys ARE sex tourists, while others actually were wowed by their treatment overseas compared to here, could it be? It couldn't be that different cultures with completely different values have different ways of treating their men could it?
Because obviously its about more than just getting ass... someone even said they respect RamDam for his honesty... he knows he has no game, and has resigned to paying for affection. I don't agree with his method but at least he accepts some responsibility in his predicament
These guys and dudes like you are so goofy in how far you go to evade responsibility. Freshman year of high school yall were the dudes crying about chicks only wanting seniors. Senior year yall were crying about chicks only wanting college dudes, athletes and dudes with money. College yall were on that "man im grinding and chicks need to love me for free". And now youre crying about how women are too materialistic. Meanwhile the whole time there have been dudes not far from your position in life getting the attention and respect you couldn't from these broads. If it was a one time thing it owuld be one thing. But if there's a million different situations with the same undesirable outcome, and you are the only common factor, you're the problem
Youre the kind of dude to see a millionaire and say 'damn he is lucky. someone prob hooked him up'. Millionaires see millionaires and say 'damn that dude is a hard worker. he seized an opportunity'. As long as you feel like someone owes you something without you having to prove your worth you won't get shyt.
Funny how all these self proclaimed 'gamed up' negroes are cosigning the one motormouth broad here that is the perfect example of what cats AREN'T trying to deal with here. If ya'll are cool with dealing with that, having power struggles and working harder for less, that's on yall. I ain't mad at them cats for expanding their options to get the best deal where they can. That's called being smart.
I dont need cosigns from anybody bruh. I have been on this same shyt since Reincar was Lord of the Lames back on the green forum. Yall nikkas are still crybabies and victims and until you man up and take control of your situations you will never see success in anything
these hypocritical azz nyggas be killin me
this chick came in, spit that ether/truth. Pretty much destroyed the whole thread
how yall gonna let this happen?
I thought you weren't from the US, why are you referring to the US divorce rate as "ours"? Too stupid to remember you're on your alias? You can't attack the message so you attack the messenger, but why should I expect any different from some google warrior that thinks the majority of Brazil is impoverished. The gap between rich and poor is wide, but there is still a middle class you moron, and while their wealth gap is shrinking ours is growing. In your own stupid words, you said the majority of Brazilians were poor, you said that and that isn't true. 
