Exactly. It's like damned if we do damned if we don't. Men say they don't want a golddigger yet when we educate ourselves and are able to support ourselves financially we've gone too far. Really?
Also no woman in her right mind would sit around waiting on Prince Charming to swoop in verses building her own platform to stand on. It's not the 1950's. Unless you're a man who is well equipped to be the bread winner and support your household I'mma need you to stfu.
legally anyone talking about bread winners is speaking nothing but outdated traditionalism, and terms.
marriage is not about providing. marriage is about creating a corporate multiple tax id built corporation with multiple streams of revenue. that do not include a job or children.
part of the problem with american society and marriage is. it is stuck in a time of female slavery that no longer exists. females or males talking about providing and breadwinner. are both obsolete terms that have nothing to do with being or consistently producing a stable life in a married relationship.
the problem with americs is the narcissistic ideal to hold on to past traditions.
that are damning, destructive and obsolete to further the good ole boi complex.
black women have definately bought into the good ole boi complex. whereas their entire mode of operation is based and welded in goldiggin for the long con.
which is stark and sheer ideals of good ole boi-ism.
then acting as if the law of the land upholds this. by using the ignorance of society welled in outdated traditionalism. as a shamjng tactic agsinst males who have not properly educated themselves on what marriage or a committed relationship is. just becsuse they found a fool to not educate himself properly on the law of the land.
women who do make a nice living are not pairing up with those under their median. yet are pursuants to men above their median, in the con to take.
that is the issue. it is all across the board as black women have been purposefully and erroneously been trained by the welfare/tax eic reform culturally.
to the point they have gravitated and instituted an non-culturally sound and non-legal supported way of social interaction and life around the entire black experience. this has purposefully been instituted into our culture for a reason.
to further the publically traded prison socio-economic penal colony we call america.
i would say 99 percent of black american men and women are poisoned by this way of erroneous thought.
purposefully, planted here to damn us.
the model is a model of ruin from a time when women were slaves.
so we take on slave mentality.
using and basing our relationahips with one another around this falsehood.
it must change,...if you know the basic legal concept of marriage.
i talk about here,...all the time.
marriage is a fifty/fifty corporate split.
not built upon children or a job as an income.
then build up a sound sexual social mate relationship around that.
it should be no problems.
yet people fall into the kingdom of the simple, or simp-dom.
then use outdated terms and non-legal supported ideals about marriage and wonder why they fail.
i don't even talk to women as a possible gf, or committal.
nor do i even do gf activities with women who say the word provider.
as that is a human flesh trade term, as i am not a pimp.
i am a pook!
if women talk that single independant mess,..
never consider them for a committal.
never do committal activities with them.
just simply be a mate and that is that.
that is all you can do.
as you have no time to gateway educate someone who is welled in the ways of a slave.
if that woman is not smart enough to have the wherewithal to study marriage, on her own. like all her other studies industrially. why even speak on marriage or complex business ideals with her.
you just mate with her and let her be.
as she lacks the intelligence to have several tax id's and create a corporation, with numerous streams of revenue with you.
if she can not successfully study what she truely desires which is marriage.
plus what that is and what it means legally.
how is she a woman you can build a real fifty/fifty corporation with.
a corporation withbher as a ceo wih youbis doomed to fail.
the problem is marriage in america is a fictional fairybook to people here.
if you do not want to build a corporation with your mate.
you do not and are not marriage material. nothing is wrong with that. what is wrong is you trying to create a marriage and not being applicable to what marriage is. then crying wolf from your own ignorance when she gets half. as you were stoopid enough to provide the whole one hundred percent.
when she was supposed to bring her fifty percent half in the first place, anyway.
the problem is you as a man are not a man. as you were not smart enough as a man, to understand the business and liability you created.
real men are educated on their business ventures.
boys are preyed upon in their ignorance about business ventures.
art barr
You don't even find black men attractive at all so I think your opinion is nullified due to bias. 
You're right my opinion is irrelevant. I was just using the same logic that the other poster did. 
and he bowed
