feminism screwed women over, notice so many women r single and miserble

[bcrusaderw]

I always see females put a negative spin on "staying at home with the kids".


You mean to tell me there's nothing positive about it? You can't make it enjoyable?


And actually, in that scenario, you'd have more free time than your husband.

When the kids are at school...hit up the spa, book store, beach, Starbucks, mall, do some shopping, hobby, or cultivate your spirituality etc etc..

Have fun with the kids....picnics....arts & crafts


Sounds peaceful & stress free to me


Most people aren't having fun at work.They're stressed the fukk out.


I don't have any problem with women wanting to work/be career oriented.

Just always wondered why so many of em make being a stay at home mom seem

"Big bad hubby....cheat cheat cheat...slave slave slave"

The way you describe it sounds wonderful, and immensely better than working, so why aren't you and other men trying to do the job? It's because you know what you just wrote is full of shyt.

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy jus made herself look like a dumb hoe lmao

How? Because you disagree? Lol

 

[How Sway?]

two bread winners> one bread winner...

men should still be the head of the household b/c thats just the laws of nature, unless he's a complete idiot ofcourse

 

[Ashley Banks]

Black women outnumber black men.

Other races exist.

 

[mcdivit85]

So men are the only who supposed to enjoy life, have a career and be successful. Many women enjoy not being a mother, just because you can a have child doesn't mean you want to be mother, and why anyone would want to stay at home raising a child while your husband can go outside to enjoy his life and take his free time to cheat on her. If you want to have a family with an woman someday, you all need to change this way of thinking because it won't last very long i can assure you that. Women can do whatever they want to do now, and most of them are happy with the way things are, i don't think they're miserable like you want to believe it. Women don't need a man or a family to be happy, that's a myth that only men believe, because we know that more than half marriage in U.S end up miserable, so family is not a guarantee of happiness, many people become more depressed after marriage experience, and women who were financially dependent to the husband struggle more after a divorce, and many of them become poor single parent. So feminism didn't screwed anything, they just teached women to be less stupid and to rely on themselves first because men tend to be very selfish, and as a men i agree.

Hyperbole

 

[Ashley Banks]

two bread winners> one bread winner...

men should still be the head of the household b/c thats just the laws of nature

what is this obsession with being the head of the household? If I'm a breadwinner just like you, why do you get to be the head?

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

The way you describe it sounds wonderful, and immensely better than working, so why aren't you and other men trying to do the job? It's because you know what you just wrote is full of shyt.

It's really that far fetched to you, huh?

 

[mcdivit85]

Feminism gave women the option to smoothly and swiftly curve p*ssy thirsty, weak, uneducated, and pathetic
men that have the audacity to create a thread talkin bout its too late to have a family in our thirties, WHO ARE YOU SWEETIE.

Black women are the most educated demographic, we have more black women in college then EVER before.

Honey, just stay bitter and lonely while we rise and make better choices for ourselves and our futures.

Hyperbole again

 

[Kid McNamara]

If this were true, simping wouldn't be at an all time high

THINK!!!!!!!

You're talking about dudes trying to get p*ssy.

I'm talking about intellectual discourse and masters of the universe. Not too many women leading M&A at Goldman Sachs, or managing global portfolios at SAC.

Even men who are pushovers around their spouses would never cede that position while at work.

Black folks often experience the same issues.

 

[Anno Domini]

I've listened to plenty, which is why I asked.

But something tells me you're the one with no substantial evidence. I understand.

Peace

This is such a dumb response. What do you want me to post? Tweets of black women not shaming black men? That's something that's easily accessible and doesn't really prove anything. The fact of the matter is that most black feminist talk about the same things we do on the TLR. They talk about racism, black issues, and white supremacy. I always see black women cape for black men (though looking at some of the nikkas in this thread they really don't deserve it). The only time I see otherwise is when some c00n posts a link here of some bed wench saying she doesn't date black men, and suddenly y'all want to act like that's the standard for all black feminist when it really is just a small minority. That's the exact same logic cacs use when they show a depiction of a hood nikka and say that's the standard for all black people. But go ahead breh continue using the logic of your own oppressor.

 

[How Sway?]

what is this obsession with being the head of the household? If I'm a breadwinner just like you, why do you get to be the head?

Its the law of nature

Plus a weak man will lead to weak sons who cant do anything and wont even want to do anything and lack initiative...

EDIT: dont get me wrong The man and woman should have equal input but when it comes down to a crisis or stressful situation, thats where the men should take the lead. Its just how it is...

 

[mcdivit85]

Any woman naive to not put the well being of the entire black family first deserves to be single and frustrated and all the extra stuff that comes to them. They dont deserve the opportunity to reproduce so dont give them the attention. If you arent a Humanist you deserve everything that comes to you. For the time tou spent fighting for womens rights, you better be fighting and speaking on the violence and atrocities that happen to black children, and black men.

Nah breh, they enjoy being a Payroll Specialist too too much

That $40,320 is worth the risk

Peace

 

[FreshFromATL]

what is this obsession with being the head of the household? If I'm a breadwinner just like you, why do you get to be the head?

Lmao so you the head of your household? at any dude that chooses to follow a woman's logic when a critical decision has to be made.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I always see females put a negative spin on "staying at home with the kids".


You mean to tell me there's nothing positive about it? You can't make it enjoyable?


And actually, in that scenario, you'd have more free time than your husband.

When the kids are at school...hit up the spa, book store, beach, Starbucks, mall, do some shopping, hobby, or cultivate your spirituality etc etc..

Have fun with the kids....picnics....arts & crafts


Sounds peaceful & stress free to me


Most people aren't having fun at work.They're stressed the fukk out.


I don't have any problem with women wanting to work/be career oriented.

Just always wondered why so many of em make being a stay at home mom seem

"Big bad hubby....cheat cheat cheat...slave slave slave"

Because most of the time it was horrible. most people are shytty (women included relax) so when they know that you completely rely on them, they take advantage of that. Take the poster Benjamin for example, he says that because he's the breadwinner and his wife is a housewife, he deserves to cheat on her, so he has his pregnant side piece living with them. He says his wife is the perfect wife but he still treats her like shyt. A lot of men feel that way. That's why we see it as "Big bad hubby....cheat cheat cheat...slave slave slave"

 

[mcdivit85]

Thank you for going ahead and proving that college has no real effect on knowledge.
We (black women) have been working behind the scenes for just as long as men have or did you forget that men and women arrived on the same slave ships with the same exact work load. Now that we finally have a voice to make the CHOICE to either stay home and be a dutiful wife and mother or a career driven money monster. You're scared that one day these women will surpass you in all ways. SHeed we don't even need yall to make babies anymore. We CAN have it all. In fact thanks to feminism we can have a man just like you mr. degree stay home and care for the home and the children while we bring that bacon to the table.

Welcome to 2015 honey.

Black Men: if you come across a woman like this on a date, at your job, at the post office.......RUN THE OTHER WAY!!!!

Peace