So men are the only who supposed to enjoy life, have a career and be successful. Many women enjoy not being a mother, just because you can a have child doesn't mean you want to be mother, and why anyone would want to stay at home raising a child while your husband can go outside to enjoy his life and take his free time to cheat on her. If you want to have a family with an woman someday, you all need to change this way of thinking because it won't last very long i can assure you that. Women can do whatever they want to do now, and most of them are happy with the way things are, i don't think they're miserable like you want to believe it. Women don't need a man or a family to be happy, that's a myth that only men believe, because we know that more than half marriage in U.S end up miserable, so family is not a guarantee of happiness, many people become more depressed after marriage experience, and women who were financially dependent to the husband struggle more after a divorce, and many of them become poor single parent. So feminism didn't screwed anything, they just teached women to be less stupid and to rely on themselves first because men tend to be very selfish, and as a men i agree.