They are saying the girl in that video of him dressing up as an 'emo boy' is over 21 and a gym influencer, but what's still weird about that is the caption of 'when she likes emo boys'. It should be 'when she likes emo-men'. If she's above age, then I won't put that jacket of desiring minors based on that video on him.
The issue with this guy is either no awareness of boundaries or, more like he knows there should be some and he doesn't care and I'm leaning towards the latter.
Look at this clip of R. Kelly and Aaliyah. What does she call him? Oh yea, 'best friend'.
And I guarantee you had all kinds of people defending R. Kelly then talking about ,"Why are you taking it like that? He is only there to help bring her career along and mentor her."
What is this dude calling all of those lil girls around him? That's right, his besties. If you're not a gay dude, then how is a 14 or 15 year old girl your best friend and what kind of straight man uses bestie?
This clip of him acting like he's straightening up when the admin comes up shows he knows the 'buddy antics' is frowned upon. Ain't no grown, straight man, trying to listen to some 14 or 15 year old tea from teenage girls. What would be of interest in those conversations? What some 14 year old boy is knocking down all the girls at the school, what rap star they find hot or who is a good kisser?
The danger of letting grown men chat with young girls and play that 'bestie' game is that its an opportunity for a predator to mine for information like which girl does and doesn't have a protective dad or older brother. Which girl is in a single parent household with a mom they are getting into it with? This lets them identify the kind of home situation that will allow him or her to swoop in without having to worry about an angry dad or brother busting their guns or a protective mom reporting him/her.
After these dudes play the bestie game, they come through and play the mentor game where they find the woman they like and isolate them talking about they are going to mentor them and put them on game. You've seen it in a lot of churches as well where the pastors pick a pretty girl or in the case of undercover pastors, they pick some young man out say he/she got some kind of blessing all over them and he's going to take this person under his wing for some one on one tutelage. Next thing you know, that underaged person is always at 'passas' house alone and it eventually comes out they've been sleeping together or they're getting married.
You do NOT let a grown man or woman who has no familial relationship play the 'peer', 'big homie' game with kids. Kids are having all kinds of hormones pumped in their bodies via food and they are developing much more rapidly than before, so what do you think is going to happen when this grownup establishes a 'peer', 'friend', 'homie' relationship with a kid that looks like a grown adult? And beyond that, some predators don't even care if the person looks like an adult. They just have a disorder to where they prefer someone that looks underage.
The boundary has to be set way ahead of time or else years down the line we're going to be hearing why didn't the adults step in and protect the kids.