yea I take it as a complimentSomebody fire up the Jay-Z reaction when Beyonce was eye fukking Lebron. But seriously I just take it as a compliment, women in relationships be thirsty for other eyecandy just like men. I don't think nothing of it and I just keep it moving but if it is in a situation where she walked into a party atmosphere I might try to get a quick convo on the low with her to see if she gonna toss it up.
I've never really taken it to the level of trying to get a convo with them afterwards though...i am usually of the School Of thought that...if she got a man? I ain't even bothering.