Fellas: what do you think it means when a woman is checking you out when she out with her guy?

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Somebody fire up the Jay-Z reaction when Beyonce was eye fukking Lebron. But seriously I just take it as a compliment, women in relationships be thirsty for other eyecandy just like men. I don't think nothing of it and I just keep it moving but if it is in a situation where she walked into a party atmosphere I might try to get a quick convo on the low with her to see if she gonna toss it up.
yea I take it as a compliment
I've never really taken it to the level of trying to get a convo with them afterwards though...i am usually of the School Of thought that...if she got a man? I ain't even bothering.
 

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that could mean alot of different shyt, If I get a number and I sense she is playing those games I just dont respond anymore. Sometimes it just be all about the hunt, once the numbers been exchanged the thrill of it is gone. Besides, if she really want you, she will let you know through her actions and not play those games.
YEAH I don't like playing those games either. I was dealing with a chick I just met a couple of days ago and she wanted to go out on Friday and she was playing text games and I just stopped caring. I'm a grown ass man I don't got time or the mental energy to play immature games with a chick.
 

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When I refer to texting games I'm talking about after you get her number and you want to hang out/go on a date and they can't be straightforward.
Like you'll text them...then they take like 3 hours to respond. And then you might text them 2 minutes later and then they leave you on read or don't respond. Stuff like that.

I'm frequently accused of playing texting games, but my phone is always on silent and I fall asleep quite easily. Plus people aren't on their phones all time but I personally can be a little inconsistent because ya girl be playing computer games :therethere:
 

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Some have wandering eyes. Some look because they like that they see. Some women want to get back at their man. Some get off on the reciprocation.
 

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That she finds you physically attractive..

Some women do it on purpose to make their man jealous. These women have low self-esteem and wanna know if their dude cares about them by getting jealous. I've had chicks I was dating look at other nikkas in front of me and I didn't get jealous. More so disappointed in their level of disrespect towards me.

I've seen different levels to it. I've seen women do a quick ass glance or just move their eyes, and then I've sen women blatantly disrespect their man by staring at another man in front of him.

It's sad really. Especially latina women, straight disrespectful with it.

I've seen women from asian, Indian and other cultures are probably more slick with it or just don't look at other men infrot of their men. But the opposite also holds true.
 

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You should ask women this

Every time this happen I try hard not to look back and I'm always confused on what to do. Because if the guy notices it's super awkward and now he's staring at you too, and plus what are you gonna do, try to mack her in front of her guy? I noticed its white women who like to do this the most
 

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Just like u get tired of looking at the same thing all the time..they do too...shyt take it as a compliment...don't act on it tho..too many women out here to deal with leftovers and unnecessary drama..it's the air u give off..some ppl have a strong presence and it acts like a magnet even when they not trying.
 

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You should ask women this

Every time this happen I try hard not to look back and I'm always confused on what to do. Because if the guy notices it's super awkward and now he's staring at you too, and plus what are you gonna do, try to mack her in front of her guy? I noticed its white women who like to do this the most
Me too
 

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Why do women play texting games/phone games with men they are supposedly interested in?
They're probably bored and/or playing the field because they have other options lined up :manny:.
 

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Means you're probably thinking about it too hard. Either she thinks you're cute or caught a vibe or she's just friendly. Who cares.

:yeshrug:

Be more concerned with how much of a bytch her man is. I almost had to beat a nikka up in front of his kids just because I smiled at his woman and the little ones on some decent human being shyt.
 

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situation where u should know Brazilian Jiu jitsu....

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